I am a big R&B lover, and when I heard this song from Maxwell I was overjoyed. This is a beautiful touching song, and I am so glad he is back after 8 long years. This is officially the song that has my heart going a miles a second. Enjoy!!
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- Apr
- 30
- 2009
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Love and Your Long Distance Carrier
I am not sure how many of you have ever been in a long distance relationship, but that shit is very taxing and expensive as hell. Now that we are in the technological age, many people in long distance relationships have a few more advantages when it comes to communication. I always wondered if the internet made it easier for couples who were doing the long distance thing to remain faithful, but I learned if someone wants to cheat, they cheat.
Few years ago I was involved in a long distance relationship. We had to maintain our romance, through phone, the internet and visits whenever we could. We talked all day on the phone, and we stayed up all night on the internet. Because we were in a long distance romance, we had to do things to actually keep it exciting. We sent sexy pics to each other, sent “I love you” texts, and even created scenarios while on the phone and…well you get the idea. Even though we tried to make it work, in the back of my mind I wondered how long was this going to continue. After a certain amount of time, how long can someone go without being held at nights?
The one thing about people in long distance relationships, you can recognize the signs when something is going wrong very quickly. The fact that you’re rarely face to face your other senses work harder. You may notice that the calls have died down dramatically or his texts are short and to the point. There are so many things that can draw your mind to the possibility that something is going on. If you know you have trust issues, then a long distance romance may not work for you.
On the other hand, long distance relationships can actually make a relationship stronger. Sometimes seeing you’re boo everyday makes the relationship somewhat stale. Absence does make the heart grow very fonder. Just imagine not seeing your boo for a long period of time, then you finally get together. The sex is gonna be explosive, trust.
One of my readers gave me the skinny on this video, and I must say I am shivering from fright. I found out more info than I needed to know. This is a radio interview with Que and Dawn on Lip Service with Angela Yee and Leah Rose.
I had my opinions of Dawn and Que and now I am just in shock. Don’t hate me guys…lol
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- Apr
- 28
- 2009
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How Far Would You Go?
I’m not going to say women are nosy, but we do go looking for shit to verify that our boo is up to no good. You might go through his cell phone while he sleeps, or try to hack into his email account, even follow his ass at 10:00 pm driving your homegirl’s black Tahoe while 2 cars behind him. **That wasn’t me, I’m just pulling out examples people** Nevertheless, some women just have to know the truth, and 9 times out of 10 when they find out they still continue to fuck with him.
*Standing* I am a former snooper. If I had a feeling in the pit of my stomach my boo was doing something, I investigated. If my snooping tactics came up empty handed, I continued until I found something that broke my heart. Women go searching for shit and when they find something to confirm their suspicions; they do 1 of 2 things. They cuss and carry-on to whoever will listen *mainly your girls* cuss his ass out and call the numbers you find in his celli, or you try to convince yourself that you need more proof and wait to see what else happens. There are some women that actually end the relationship, but majority of the time they still go back to him or continue to get the dick. Either way you’re still attached to him.
Now, if I ever suspect anything I try to let things unfold on it’s own. Some men aren’t the smartest tool in the shed; they tend to be sloppy when it comes to cheating. I guess most of the time they get a sloppy chick, that just wants you to find out that she’s fucking your man. Well, that is another blog for another time.
Holla at me: Has there ever been a time where you just had to snoop around?
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- Apr
- 27
- 2009
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For The Love of Ray J Reunion Show
Last night was the reunion episode of the slut fest known as For the Love of Ray J. I waited for this for weeks and I must say I was so disappointed. It wasn’t as juicy as I would have anticipated, but I guess you can’t win em’ all. There were some interesting moments in the show, so I will basically recap what I found interesting.
1. Un-be-weave-able ~ Hair weaves and lacefronts were in full effect ya’ll. I have never seen so much hair since I seen Danger’s nekkid pic with the bushel on her coochie. Speaking of Danger and her hair, I wasn’t feeling the new do. Looked like a kool-aid packet exploded on her head and she had no time to wash it out. Just wasn’t feeling it. And Unique….heffa looked like the cowardly lion with all that dark blonde mess on top her head. Chick needed some courage to tell her stylist, the look made her head to heavy to hold up. I’m talking pounds and pounds of hair.
2. Chicago Larry *he he* ~ Molesta uncle was in the building. We all (when I say we I mean my twitter crew) couldn’t wait for the reunion in hopes that Chicago Larry would be there. Larry was the Russian chick *Caviar* photographer/boyfriend/molester. *only assuming the last one* This man has the creepiest voice known to man. He sounds like he had his way with a few kids in his time. Finally seeing this man, I saw an ostrich walk on set with multi-colored Oakley’s on looking straight perverted. His voice and his look make me want to take a steaming shower and wash the feeling of molestation off of my body.
3. Upgrade Award ~ Oh-Em-Gee! I would have to give the upgrade award to Chardonnay. Homegirl cleans up really nice. I think she was the best looking one there. For some reason I think she will have her own show.
4. Danger Danger~ We all knew Danger was coo coo clock crazy. Bitch never hid that from us. But she came on and blasted Ray in the worse way. We all heard rumors that she was preggers for him, but no one ever confirmed or denied that statement. Well Danger said she thought she was pregnant and a “friend” ran to the press and told them. Ray’s eyes got so big I could see what the hell he was thinking. That was like watching Maury and him getting results that he was the father. Too damn funny. Next time I bet he will strap up before smashing random chicks with tigers on their faces.
5. Hoes Be Beefin~ What was considered beef looked more like two heffas chatting to me, but it was between Cashmere and Unique. Cashmere finally opens her fucking mouth and tries to diss Unique saying that she is Bi. Um I don’t really care. What I do care about is that she thought Unique was her friend. I actually don’t think Unique was wrong in how she played the game. It was a competition, not a friendship. You can’t go into that environment thinking you’re gonna make life-long friends. Heffas you gunning for the same man, you think this is a game? This is real life. Do like Unique did and man the hell up. LMAO *Zing*
6. Downgrade Award~ This heffa was never an upgrade to begin with, but when she walked out on stage I knew this award was for her. Cocktail came out in a pea green prom looking dress. Looked like a hot as mess. She looked like those folks that have their babies go into Wal-mart wearing a prom dress and tennis shoes.*Not gonna say the names, but you should know what I mean.*
All in all the show wasn’t what I thought it was gonna be. They edited alot of it, so they just left me semi-bored. Alot of the chicks I couldn’t remember, and the ones I do remember they never got air time. Not sure what I will do with my Monday nights at 10pm, guess I gotta wait until For the Love of Ray 2…Oh yes there is a Season 2. Its Vh-1 homies, I thought you knew. LOL.
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- Apr
- 24
- 2009
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Feenin Friday: My Letter To Idris Elba
Dear Idris,
I decided to write this letter to you, because I just think you’re the tops. Your movie “Obsessed” is coming out today and I would watch it, but I really don’t care to see Beyonce and her lacefront trying to act. I just wanted to express the love and the respect I have for you, and why I think you deserve to come to my home naked. Here goes;
1. Fine as hell ~ Do I really have to explain this one? You got the face that would make Ellen fall in love with a man. Your smile is intoxicating, and I think your dick might be the prettiest thing I ever did see. *I am at home after 5:30pm, come over*
2. The accent ~ I have an accent as well, but I think yours sound much sexier. My panties can slip off if you say the sexiest word like vulva. Say vulva to a random woman and her panties will magically appear in your pocket. * I can cook you a meal, and play some Beres Hammond in the background*
3. Your talented~ Not only are you a great actor, but you also dj. So that means you have quick hands, that can move in the right places. Ok nuff said *fanning myself* *I got some massage oils for you, I can give you a Swedish with a happy ending*
4. You look Skrong *Yea I said skrong* ~ You look like you can pick my ass up and love me up in mid air or against the wall. *I can make you some breakfast and iron your work clothes*
5. Look like you always have Chiclets ~ You remind me of an old school island man always chewing chiclets. I think though when you chew, you would make it look sexy as hell. But please don’t pop it, I would die a slow painful death if you did. *I can change a flat tire*
These are the 5 reasons why I love you. It may sound weird, but hey I am a weird girl. On the real your sexy as hell and a great actor. Congrats on the movie, and like I said I would watch it,but Beyonce and lacefront is co-starring so I will get the bootleg.
Love you
ViChick
xoxoxoxoxoxox* This is all for pure fun, take the stick out your asses*
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- Apr
- 22
- 2009
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Rules and Regs of a Cutt Relationship
For those of you that just came from under a bridge, cutting basically means to have a physical non-emotional sexual relationship with someone. That person is referred to as a cutt buddy. Now that lesson is over, let’s get to the heft of what I want to talk about. With the economy the way it is, I think it is more economically sound to have a cutt buddy rather than one of those love relationship thingy. With a cutt buddy relationship the only expectations you have to spend money is buying those XXL Magnums *don’t we all wish*. Anywho here are some rules and regulations to a successful cutter/cuttie relationship.
1. Establish Boundaries~You both need to have an understanding on what the relationship
entails. If he is wishing on a fallen star that you want a relationship with him, and your whole
goal is just to bust a very well needed nut; this isn’t the right person to smash with.2. Always be Prepared~ There is nothing wrong with a woman purchasing her own condoms. A woman must always be prepared, even if he isn’t. Unprotected sex should never happen with a cutt buddy relationship anyway. You never know who else he could be smashing, and plus you don’t want to end up preggers for your buddy. That is just poor taste.
3. Never Get Comfortable~The thing about a cutt buddy relationship is, it can be over at any time. You’re not bonded by a relationship, so naturally you meet new people and start to date. Once one party of the relationship has started a real romantic relationship, you have to accept it and move on. You can’t get mad because he has decided to find love or what he thinks is love. Chances are if your pussy was good, and he ends the relationship he will be back to continue his role.
4. Keep It On The Hush~ When in a cutt situation, you should never introduce friends and family to this person. The more personal it gets, it starts to feel like a relationship. This person is just someone that has agreed to please you sexually and vice versa. No need for introductions.
5. Experiment~This is the perfect person to try new moves on. Practice makes perfect. Get your game up so when you actually get in a relationship you can wear their ass out.
These are just some of my top 5 rules and regulations for a sex 2 sex relationship. I always tell women, when it comes to these kinds of relationship you need to think like a man. Never let your emotions get involved or your gonna end up hurt and alone. Alright guys, be safe and cum hard!
Holla at me: What are some of your rules for a cutt buddy situation?
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- Apr
- 21
- 2009
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PSA:Keep Your Eyes On Your Own Work!
Let me start off by saying, there is nothing wrong with watching porn. I think it’s a very healthy expression of visual pleasure. When it comes to porn some women are dead set against it, but one can learn alot from watching the professionals. It’s really fun when you watch it with your boo. When the flick starts getting to the meat of the subject, your ready for the meat of your subject. So you’re dripping and ready for that rock of gibraltar. You two start getting heated and by this time hopefully you’re already nekkid. Your eyes are closed and ready to feel him enter your cooch; and nothing. This mother fucker is so transfixed on the porn, and he isn’t paying attention to what the hell he needs to be doing.The purpose of the flick is to get you in the mood. If you’re already in the mood and the woman is ready to get down with the get down, why are you loafing? Your so focused on the flick with the chick that is slobbering the pole, your not realizing that you can possibly get the same treatment. The fact that you have a woman that watches porn is a plus. Once you show a woman that her services aren’t needed, she gets turned off. I’m not sure if you’re trying to get a few quick pointers, but that should be done before you have the chick in your bed.
That was a quick public service announcement brought to you by the good folks of Candy Diaries. Use this knowledge as you wish!-
- Apr
- 20
- 2009
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Do You Think You're Damaged Goods?
We’ve all been in bad relationships. My motto; learn from it and try to move on. Some people let these relationships ruin their perception of love. It’s very easy to get so discouraged, that you start to believe that you may never find real love. If you’ve been in relationship after relationship, do you start to believe you’re damaged goods?
I think I have been very open about my love life when I do these blogs. I write about my experiences, and try to teach something in the process. It has been no surprise that I am ready for love to come into my life. I try to remain optimistic about the whole thing, but truth be told I am starting to have major doubts. For years, I have been in and out of one bad relationship to another. I try to remain hopeful and press on with my life, but now I am tired. Tired of getting my hopes up when I meet someone with potential, and those hopes getting dashed in the wind. Am I now damaged goods because of the hurt I have encountered? Am I actually sabotaging these relationships, because I feel am afraid of the reality of love? These are the questions that everyone should ask themselves when in this type of situation.
I recently had a conversation with one of my friends, and she felt that no man can love her because of her past. The past certainly determines our future; you just have to decide how. Folks I am tired of this pattern in my life. So for right now I am sorry to say, I give up. I know it sounds harsh, but I need to get my mind right and evaluate some things I need to work on. Just to let you know nothing major happened to make me feel this way, sometimes nothing happens to make you see everything clearly.
Holla at me: Have you ever felt like you were damaged goods?
Dear Black People And Audrena,
*Clearing throat* I have been sucked into your tv bullshit. I get excited to tune into your MTV fuckery every Thursday, because the power of drama has sucked me in. I do have a few issues with some of you people and I will address. This is only my opinion so if you read this you might need to re-evaluate your life and priorities.
Que~Oh Quanell, Quanell dude you need an intervention. I am not sure your drug of choice, but you need to get off that shit. You’re the problem with Day26; well other than Diddy fucking you guys without lub outta your money. Your odd plump lips are always pushed out, because someone looked at you. You know crack heads are always paranoid that someone is trying to get them. You need to get kicked out this sub-par group.
Robert~ TAKE THE FUCKING KNIT HAT-HAWK OFF. You look stupid as hell. I don’t know who styles you people, but that hat is not the shit. Another issue I have with you *sigh* um you cry a little too much for me. That scene where you were walking down the streets crying aloud with your skinny jeans on disturbed me. I know you love Que and all in the biblical sense, but it wasn’t that fucking serious.
Will~ I love you *sorry did I say that out loud?* You’re sexy, no doubt about it but you act too cute. You fine but dude didn’t your momma teach you manners? If I speak to you on twitter, speak back. Damn I’m not trying to stalk you, but say something. You fine, but you ain’t Common fine. *Moving on*
Mike & Brian~ Mike I don’t have any issues with you. You’re one of the coolest fluffy men I’ve seen. You’re funny as hell, but um…..the colored contacts.*spanking your hand* NO!!!!Brian~ For a wee man you ok I guess. Just get rid of the braids.
Dawn~ Ehhh. I think you gave Que the first taste of the crack pipe. I don’t know what you did to little fag boy, but I think you’ve ruined him. The “love” you two have sickens me. It’s odd and makes me feel creepy. On another note; your life is over. You’re the only member of Danity Kane and you should feel awkward. Diddy release everyone else out their contracts and we all know he doesn’t do that ever. Hell he still has Biggie under contract. Your snitching abilities have caused you to be with Bad Boy fo life. Your albums won’t sell, and your weave will continue to stink. *thumbs up* Good Luck Girl.
Audrena ~ Congrats girl! You’re free!!!! Girl you need to take a cruise or something. You’re out of the shackles that Massa Diddy has everyone else in. You Go Girl… *raising hand* Just one thing hun…your face needs protein. It lacks nourishment, and you may want to pay more attention to that, than the food you’re stuffing your face with.
The first part of the final episode was last night, and I was kind of bored. Hopefully part two will get better. Que and Robert, go 69 and suck on each other like you normally do..
Sincerely,
VI Chick
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