Dear Guy with the Nose,
*Chewing on sunflower seeds and spits them out on your shoe* What up playa? I just have so many things I built up in my head to say to you, that now I don’t know where to start. True enough you come from one of the most musical families of our time, but what crack rock do you smoke and where can I cop some? I don’t smoke the crack and such, but obviously the crack you on makes you believe that you’re more talented than William Hung. I wrote a letter to your senile Pappy not too long ago and now I feel the need to address you.
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There is absolutly nothing wrong with being an independent black woman, but I think some women use their “independence” as a cover. Many single women shout “I’m independent. I got my own house, car and money. Yea I’m doing it for myself.” Hmmm last time I checked isn’t that what it means to be SINGLE? I don’t know how many of ya’ll will ride with me on what I’m about to say, but here goes. I think women confuse the term independent and they don’t realize all the shit they got is what a single woman is suppose to have. Then you have some women that use their “independence” to scare men away, then wonder why they can’t find any good men out there. Ya’ll confusing your damn selfs and chasing away any prospect for any long-term relationships.
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It is so beautiful to see love in bloom. You look at each other and there is a twinkle in your eyes. You hold hands while walking down the street. You even spend long hours on the phone talking about anything you can think of. So you’re out somewhere just being your cute selves and he bumps into someone he knows. In your head it’s clear that you’re more than just a chick he’s kicking it with, but it hasn’t been defined. So like I said, he bumps into someone he knows and he introduces you as HIS FRIEND. *Blankness and Despair* Wait hold up!!!!!! Now at this point you don’t want to look like an ass so you just smile and pretend that you’re cool with the title, knowing deep down you wanna punch him in the dick for calling you his “friend”.
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Dear V.I.,
About 2 years ago i ended a very bad long term relationship…it ended very badly. I had a male friend who helped me through it all…This male friend was so good to me one thing lead to another with all the late night talking etc. We ended up sleeping together then i learned he had a woman he loved but was not in a relationship with in another state. I respected that and when she called i remained quiet besides i did not want to be in a relationship. We agreed to be fuck buddies. Things got heated up and the love word was exchanged later into the year.
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Ya’ll know I am somewhat of a ball breaker right, so there are just certain things I refuse to tolerate when it comes to men. I firmly believe men should act like GOD gave them common sense and not make me get gutta on their asses. I am as sweet as cotton candy, but there is just some bullshit that will make me dump your ass in a heartbeat. I try to give you fair warning before you decide to try me, but I guess some people just don’t get it as fast as others. This blog is dedicated to the men I dated and dumped. These are the reasons I dumped you. This one’s for you boo. *Lil Mama sexy wink*
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We all know that forgiving someone is healing to the soul, but forgetting is damaging to the heart. Almost everyone has been in a situation where they’ve loved with their whole heart, and in the second breath it was broken in two. Love is hard, but you can’t allow it to permanently damage you. When most people enter relationships they focus on all the beauty and the affections associated with it. They try to leave all the what ifs and how comes behind, because they only want to think with their emotions. We always hear the phrase “Leave room for disappointment”, but is it possible that we leave too much room for disappointment?
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You guys know I like to tell stories right, well I got one for you. I met him through a mutual friend a few years ago over the phone. He lived in NYC and I lived in stayed in the “A”. We grew up on the same island, went to high school together, but I never knew his name. Back then I always had a slight crush on him, but he never noticed I was alive. For months we talked on the phone, text and IM’d damn near every form of communication. After a few months the conversation started to drift from friendship, to I like you to I think I love you. The relationship started to get serious, and never even been in the same room with each other. After four months over the phone we decided to finally travel to see each other. Before I left the “A” to head to NYC he told me one thing, “My dick game is vicious. Just warning you”. I laughed because I have heard that shit so many times and only got sub par work from other men. I was still intrigued by him so I went to NYC for the weekend.
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Dear V.I.,
Hi, first of all I love your blog I read it all the time. I find it to be very interesting and informative, that’s why I want your advice on something. See I’m a 25 year old virgin and I’ve recently met a guy that I’m really into. I think I should give you a little background about me and the guy.Well we met like 2 months ago,we’ve been out a couple times but we haven’t seen each other since before Christmas. We both went out of town for the holidays. Well he went back out of town on Friday and up until this point we hadn’t talked about anything sexual. That change on Saturday he sent me a sex-text. I really didn’t know what to do, so I sent him a dirty message back. This goes on all night.
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Last year Beyonce coined the phrase “Put a ring on it”. I know damn near every woman and their not so pretty bff were pushing their hands in a dude’s face letting him know he needs to make it official. Yea Bey done got ya’ll screaming marriage when half of ya’ll don’t even know how to keep a boyfriend. I’m not trying to be hard on anyone, I’m just trying to present some logic that Bey obviously failed to tell. There are several things a REAL man looks for when he’s searching for that RIGHT woman. Here are some clues to let you know that your finger might be bear for some time.
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As many of you know, yesterday a 7.0 magnitude earthquake has catastrophically damaged the country of Haiti. The epicenter of this earthquake was 10 miles from the city of Port-Au-Prince.
We here at Candy Diaries want to give our prayers to our brothers and sisters dealing with this devastation. The number of casualty’s will be enormous, but we will keep on praying.
Ways You Can Help
Artist Wyclef Jean has set-up a way that you can help the people in Haiti rebuild and live again. It’s simple: Help Haiti Earthquake Relief Donate $5 by texting YELE to 501 501 right now please!!
You can also visit CNNWorld and there are many ways you can help the people of Haiti.
If you are a member on FaceBook and live in the Atlanta area, you can also join the Atlanta to Haiti Earthquake Relief Initiative. We are asking Atlanta’s Urban Entertainment Community, and EVERYONE ELSE IN ATLANTA to help us support the Haitian Alliance in Greater Atlanta Metro collect, ship, and distribute.
This is a very important cause. The people of Haiti need our help. Let’s do this!!!!
