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  - 30
  - 2010
- Sowing His Royal Oats *Vintage Blog*
  
  Written by V.I. in My thoughts,Relationships coming to america, commitment, eddie Murphy, fear, waiting at 9:30 am
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Just like women, men have no idea what the hell they want. Men say they want to find a woman that they can settle down with, but when they find a woman that matches what they want they head for the hills of Arabia. I assume something clicks in their mind and they come to the conclusion that they need time to “think” before they decide to settle down with their “baby”. KneeGrow Please!! Don’t get me wrong, I have no problem with someone thinking things out before they make a big step, but exactly what is the woman you love suppose to do? Wait? Some men would actually think there is no problem with her waiting. Look let me tell you what I learned; when a man thinks, he doesn’t.

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- - Nov
  - 29
  - 2010
- Never Get Too Comfortable In Your Role
  
  Written by VI in Relationships comfortable, complacent, dating, infatuation, love at 9:45 am
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Do you know what the #1 killer of relationships is; people getting a little too comfortable? We’ve all been guilty (men and women) some time or another of becoming too settled in our relationships. Honestly, how could you not be? I think we feel once we’ve got em…we think we’ve got em. Also the big issue is the things we did to get them we neglect to do to keep them. So are we to blame if they reveal that they’ve fallen out of love or if they go outside the relationship for the things you’re lacking?

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- - Nov
  - 26
  - 2010
- The Most Wonderful Time of the YEAR
  
  Written by V.I. in Style Candi black friday, holidays, shopping, Style Candi, tips at 10:00 am
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Well the holidays are upon us…and you know what that means. Shopportunities are endless! Stores are opening later, deals are better and everything becomes even more of a must . So here’s a few helpful hints to use your time wisely this holiday season.

1. Scope out deals on the net. Alot of your favorite companies have on line special that start after Black Friday. It’s called Cyber Monday!

2. Limit yourself. Take a certain amount of cash so you don’t over spend yourself…remember it’s the thought that counts and the feeling it feels to give.

3. Coupons are your friend. Some store take competitor coupons that can also help you to save money.

4. Mama ain’t raise no fool…If it sounds to good to be true…keep in mind it just might be. So be sure to research the product before you buy.

5. Be ready for battle…it’s the holidays but people tend to forget after 5 hours of hunting and gathering gifts.

6. Stay strapped! In your trust ever ready kit make sure you pack a snack… Stopping for food will only make you lose way and focus.

With these simple but important tips you shall be able to shop in until you absolutely drop!

Find the Fabulous Finds,

Amber-Fash

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- - Nov
  - 24
  - 2010
- Ask V.I.~He’s Forcing Me To Be His Girl…Help
  
  Written by VI in Ask V.I. child tantrum, forgive, Relationships, Sex, sexual performance at 9:30 am
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Well, Let me just start off by saying I read ur blog ALL THE TIME!! I love it!! Well anyways, I’ve been talking to this guy since September and everything was going cool. He came to see me and we didn’t have sex or anything until the day he was suppose to leave to go back home. When it came down to getting it in, he couldn’t get it up! It wouldn’t stay hard and I barely felt it. He later told me that he was too nervous and that he just couldn’t relax and focus so I left it alone…or should I say I tried to leave it alone. It has been on my mind and kinda made me look at him differently, sex wise.

He came to see me a second time and I couldnt get it off my mind. The sex part didnt happen at all! He’s a really good guy and was a potential boyfriend until we kinda fell out. He was trying to rush me into a relationship, but I wasnt ready and I’m still not ready! I’ve always told him to be patience with me because it has been awhile since I’ve been in a relationship. I jus wanted to make sure he was a right choice for me and my daughter. He threw a tantrum and basically told me he was gonna start being distinct towards me and break off contact with me so he could “get over me”.

Since then he’s been calling and texting me non stop saying how sorry he was for being selfish and not thinking about me and my feelings. His parents are even upset with him for kinda screwing things up with me because we were doing so good! It took alot to even get close to him that I worried I may have to go threw this again with him in the future. Should I forgive him or keep it moving?!? Am I over reacting?!?

Don’t Wanna Be Bothered

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- - Nov
  - 23
  - 2010
- Run Heffas! 5 Men That Should Be Off Limits
  
  Written by VI in Relationships friendship, man hoe, marriage, married men, off limit men, Relationships at 9:30 am
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Women always want what they know their asses don’t need. It’s like we’re children. We see a shiny red button that says “Don’t Touch”, but we still touch it just to see what happens. It’s the same way with men. There are some men that we know we have no business getting involved with, but we let our loins get in the way and all hell breaks loose. Here are the top 5 men that need to have their own warning labels. Ladies, if you get involved with any of these men you’re about to head down shits creek without a paddle. I’ve listed them in no particular order.

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- - Nov
  - 22
  - 2010
- 6 Things Women Won’t Do in a New Relationship
  
  Written by VI in Relationships brushing teeth, comfort, fart, love, makeup, masturbate, Relationships at 9:30 am
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Awwwwww isn’t new found love grand? You cuddle every chance you get, have those long never ending conversations on the phone at night and you have sex more than you eat. New beginnings are amazing!! Even though we get all open and happy there are still a few things a woman will not do in front of her man. She actually doesn’t want him to head for the hills if she introduces her true self to him. I remember an episode of A Different World right after Whitley and Dwayne got married. Whitley woke up 5 mins before Dwayne every morning and washed her face, combed her hair and brushed her teeth. Then she would run back into the back just before the alarm rang and pretended to be asleep. Whitley did this so when he woke up every morning and looked at her he saw how beautiful she was when she slept. There are just some things that women don’t want their men to see or even know they do. Here are a list of the top 5 things women try not do in new relationships.

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- - Nov
  - 19
  - 2010
- The Queen of ARTS
  
  Written by V.I. in Style Candi art, ashley v reid, photographer, rick ross, Style Candi, warhol at 9:15 am
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I’ve been blessed to meet amazing people. The opportunity to meet Ashley V. Reid was a greatest ones. Ashley and her work is not only beautiful or amazing but *ahem* are absoultely DOOOPENESS ! Jumping into her craft head first. Ashley, self-described “light stalker with a camera”, is like a artist with their paint brush when with camera in hand. Her work can view as a Warhol of our times.

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- - Nov
  - 18
  - 2010
- Ask V.I.~ I Could Just Die…Seriously
  
  Written by VI in Ask V.I. Ask V.I., friendship, std, symptoms, virginity at 9:30 am
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I am 22 yrs old and I recently lost my virginity to a friend. About five days later after the first time I noticed there was a problem, I found to bumps in my genital region. I went to the doctor a few days later(it was the weekend), & I am now waiting on my results. The thing is that since that doctors visit the situation down there has gotten worst and I just know that I have Herpes. I feel like crawling under a rock and dying because this is just horrible. I don’t know what to do and feel like my sex life completely over and it hasn’t even start yet.

I can’t tell my 2 best friends because I don’t want to get treated any differently & I know that it would be hard for them not to do me that way. That would honestly be committing social suicide, they wouldn’t just stop hanging with me completely because they are my cousin and sister. It’s to the point that this is already hard trying to deal with, that I don’t need anything added on. I haven’t even talked my friend even though he has been calling and texting wanting to see me. If I see him I don’t know what my actions might be…If u have any thoughts or advice please share because I need something.

HELPPPPPPPPP!

Scared and Confused

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- - Nov
  - 17
  - 2010
- Loving The One You’re Not With!!
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships blog, love, man, moving on, Relationships, woman at 9:30 am
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Everyone at one point has been here. You want someone, but know you can never have them. Either they’re with someone else, just totally unavailable or really just don’t want your ass. Some people try to erase them out of your minds, and hope that the feelings disappear. Then there are others who live by the rules “By any means necessary”. They will try any back-handed gutter shit to get the person they want. They seduce and pray that the sex will keep em coming back. People have a way of wanting the unattainable. We just want what we can’t have I guess. The more it’s away from us the more we feel we have to have it. It’s more like a sick game.

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- - Nov
  - 16
  - 2010
- The String Along Chick *Vintage*
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships breakups, hurt, love, Relationships, string along at 9:30 am
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I always wondered why men can’t just say how they really feel. A woman will think everything is going great between them, but in his mind he has already dismissed himself from the “relationship”. When he mentally dismisses himself the problem I have is, he never tells her what’s going on. He just keeps her in the background, I guess as the In Case Shit broad. Meaning, in case shit doesn’t pan out with anyone else at least she is still there.

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