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  - 2011
- Why Do We Ignore The Signs?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships experiences, god, hustling, negativity, Relationships, signs at 9:30 am
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Why do people neglect the signs? Have you ever met someone that you liked, but it seemed like everything in the relationship was wrong? No matter how much you try to ignore it, it becomes more apparent that something just isn’t right. Either they’re mentally unstable, they’re users or the timing is just off. In the back of your mind you know that it’s not suppose to be like that, but because you’re in love you ignore it and pray that it becomes better. Why do we ignore the signs when they’re clearly right in front of us?

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- - Jan
  - 26
  - 2011
- When The Past Comes Back To Haunt You *Vintage*
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships at 9:30 am
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Almost everyone has that ex that brings out the worst in them. No matter what form of communication you have, you always end up arguing about the same old shit. This may have been the reason you ended in the first place. One person just has a problem moving on, and letting go of the past. It is especially nerve wrecking when an ex contacts you when you’re involved in a new relationship. You try to be cordial and avoid certain topics of conversation, but they always drive you to the point of no return.

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- - Jan
  - 25
  - 2011
- Yo You’re 30…Grow the F*ck Up!!! *Vintage*
  
  Written by V.I. in My thoughts braids, commitment, growing up, scared, urban blog at 9:30 am
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I have a really big problem with grown ass men still acting like they’re still in there teens. There are some things that your ass need to let go of. I’ve come across men that look grown but act even more childish than my3 year old God son. I understand feelings zestfully youthful is what everyone strives for, but at some point you need to grow up and take care of your responsibilities. A woman can’t handle a grown f*cking man-boy. Ladies, if you continue to put up with his shit his ass won’t see any problem in what he’s doing because you’re condoning it. I’ve come up with my own list of things that I think men need to let go. Hell you’re in your 30′s now…grow the f*ck up!

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- - Jan
  - 24
  - 2011
- As We Get Older, Does Security Trump Love?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships love, Relationships, security, settling, Sex, stability at 9:30 am
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Do you realize when you get older you think differently than you did in your early 20′s? When you’ve been through enough with relationships you realize that certain things aren’t as important as others. Back in the day most chicks only required a man with a big slong and that’s what made them happy. Now he has to have common sense and the slong size to back it up. Back then I wasn’t concerned with what the future held in relationships. I was in love for that moment and whatever else came after was gravy. I realize now at the age of 30 I am thinking a lot differently than I did at 20. Security is becoming a big aspect in weather or not I devote my time in a long term relationship. So I asked myself…Does Security trump Love?

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- - Jan
  - 21
  - 2011
- Fashion Cost While Style Is Free *Vintage*
  
  Written by V.I. in Style Candi candy diaries, carrie bradshaw, fashion, manolo blahnik, Sneak Peek at 9:30 am
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Don’t get me wrong I LOVE high fashion as much as the next fashion band-aid (groupie), but I realized the difference between fashion and style. You could own all the designer garments known to man, but if you can not merch(merchandising) or style it up it’s as if you’ve ruined a great pair of Jeffery Campbell shoes by stepping into dog pooh! Here’s when your true fashion love kicks in.

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- - Jan
  - 20
  - 2011
- Ask V.I.~My Kitty Kat Made Him Vomit
  
  Written by V.I. in Ask V.I. embarrassment, friendship, golden showers, menstrual cycle, oral sex, sex buddies at 9:30 am
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Hi V.I.,

I need you to help me figure this one out. So I’ve been single for a while and I haven’t allowed anyone in my circle. There is this guy that I’ve been friends with for a few years and he has always had an interest in me. I wasn’t feeling him like that, but recently he approached me about being sex buddies. I was a little reluctant because we were just friends and like I said I wasn’t feeling him on that level.

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- - Jan
  - 19
  - 2011
- I’m Dying…And Common Is The Killer
  
  Written by V.I. in Reality Bites Common, love, marriage, rumors, Serena Williams at 9:35 am
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*Blows nose* If the rumors are true I am so sadden to say that the man of my dreams and his muscle booty girlfriend are now engaged. Yesterday twitter was all a buzz that Common popped the question to his girlfriend of 3 years “Serena “my booty bigger than yours” Williams. I am not happy with this news because I’ve been in love with Common since he wore all them damn knitted outfits. *Wipes eyes*I hope she makes him as happy as I could if given the opportunity. If the rumors are true…Common my heart will heal. You warmed me at night. You gave my heart life at one point when I thought it died. I will always love you even when Serena’s ass droops and her weave looks f*cked up. I will always be here. I love you congrats.

This has been my closure…if this rumor is true. I hope you two are happy for the first 3 years of your marriage and contemplate divorce on your 4 year anniversary. I would be joking if I wasn’t dead ass serious.

Love,

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- - Jan
  - 19
  - 2011
- B.E.T Done F*cked “The Game” Up…Literally! Episode 2
  
  Written by V.I. in Game Day...The Game Rundown BET, disappointment, episode rundown, new episode of the game, The Game at 9:30 am
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So last night was the second episode of “The Game” and I must say I was gravely disappointed. I KNEW BET WAS GONNA F*CK THIS SHOW UP. The first episode was ok, but this episode was pure bullshit. I can rant and rave about how much I don’t like BET and how everything they touch turns into straight cat piss, but I’m not going to go there right now. I’m gonna keep my word and run down episode 2 in case you missed it. FYI…These are gonna be short and sweet because BET decided to cut the show to 30 damn mins.

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- - Jan
  - 18
  - 2011
- The Truth About Loyalty
  
  Written by V.I. in Diary Of A Mad Guest Blogger honesty, loyalty, men, Relationships, urban blog, women at 9:30 am
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*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. I want you to give a special hand to John Doe.

Loyalty, that’s the word that comes right after the big four letter word “Love”. Some may say they both coincide with each other. One may not be capable to have one without the other, in a safe or healthy relationship. People, have you ever wondered/questioned the loyalty of family, friends, & especially your significant other has for you? Well, that’s a question everyone thinks or asks themselves and will like to know the answer to before that big day one may say “I DO”.

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- - Jan
  - 17
  - 2011
- Is It Better To Fake It Than Be Alone?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships acceptance, Chilli, denial, fake relationships, Jennifer and Eric Williams, love, Sex and the City, What Chilli Wants at 9:30 am
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So I was watching an episode of Sex and the City and Carrie brought up the question “Is it better to fake it than to be alone”. As I watched the episodes it occurred to me that many people develop false relationships in their heads just so they can feel as if they’re a part of something. For instance, imagine you start dating someone that you like a lot. After the 2nd date you start mentally planning your wedding or thinking of cute baby names for a non-existent child. Basically your living in Candy Land. You’re developing a “relationship” with a person that isn’t even thinking that far ahead. Another instance, you’re in a relationship with someone that you clearly don’t want to be in, but you’re sticking with it because frankly there is no hope around the corner. You rather stay in a fake relationship than to deal with being alone.

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