If you’re like me, you’re familiar with the vision board. You’ve took the time and prepared exactly what you wanted to throw out into the universe. For those of you who’ve never heard of a vision board, it’s a board of all the things that you see for yourself over a certain period of time. You carefully think of all the positive things you want to occur, all the goals you want to attain and put it on the board. The more you focus on your board the more you’re motivated to attain these things, with the universe’s help. Like they always say “Speak it into existence and it should come to pass.” The new year is coming up and I know so many people are focused on what they’re gonna do for New Years Eve. What outfit they gonna wear to the club or how many house parties they gonna hit up. Are you thinking about what you want for 2012? What would you put on your vision board?
Ladies, sometimes you gotta learn when to move the hell on. I know it’s rough when you’re in love and blah blah blah, but if he’s treating you like day old bread it might be time to kiss his dumb ass goodbye. There are so many women out here that put up with way too much shit. It’s like if he ain’t treating you wrong then the relationship just ain’t right. I’ve learned that no matter how much you wish someone could treat you better, it’s not gonna happen if you’ve allowed them to mistreat you. Some people stay wishing that shit would change, but like I always say a man won’t change unless something major happens and he decides to change. Other than that you crying every other day about the shit he constantly does to you isn’t gonna help your situation.
Lets face the facts. If you’re a woman, then I’m pretty much sure at some point in time you’ve had ANOTHER woman offer her “sacred” advice on how to “effectively” KEEP a man. You know the girl who carries her “How To Keep A Man Handbook” in her purse. And in most cases these SAME women are the very bitches who haven’t seen a hard dick since prom night.
I am so glad that Simon brought X-factor to the US…if he didn’t no one would have known there were so many talented people walking among us. My hometown girl Melanie *#BVI and #VI to de bone* took home the 5 million dollar contract. I swear the first time I heard Melanie sing I said to myself “My gurl got this.” The girl can sanggggggggggggggg. Plus the fact that we were raised in the same place only made me love her more. Every time she sang you felt the serenity and the power in her voice. This girl deserved this win.
I am completely happy that Chris Rene didn’t win this competition. Not that he’s a bad guy, but that dude CANNOT SING. I think he got that far because of sympathy votes. They didn’t want him to lose and fall off the wagon and whatnot. That chile didn’t need to make it that far. I hope he sticks with his recovery and move on with life. Josh oh how I love Josh. That guy’s voice reminds me of Michael McDonald. He came very far and he deserved to make it into the top two. I was either Team Melanie or Team Josh…well more Melanie. I just didn’t want Chris’s ass to win. I swear if Chris won this blog wouldn’t be a congrats blog. I would have been cussing X-Factor’s motherflucking ass out.
Anyway, again Congrats to the beautiful Melanie Amaro. The #BVI and the #VI are so proud of you. I think I speak for all the Virgin Islands people when I say “You kill it my gurl.” I wish Melanie the best of luck and hopefully one day I can have an interview with her. * Like I really want to interview her*. Once that album comes out you know the kid gonna cop it. I’m not gonna even bootleg it…I’m gonna go into a legitimate store and pay my money. Lol.
Listen to the song that put Melanie as the winner *in my head*. Baby girl bruk out the Creole Princess of All Things Beautiful swag and sung “Listen”. Enjoy!
I would just like to say Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanzaa and Happy Hanukkah to all the Candy Diaries readers. Thank you guys so much for riding with me another year. I know this year I’ve been a little lax as far as my posts, but you know how it gets sometimes. I appreciate each and every one of you. I thank you for allowing me to invade your daily lives. Your facebook messages, emails, tweets and texts truly inspire me and let me know what I do daily isn’t in vain. I’m praying for another year of blogging and I hope you guys are along for the ride. I have different ventures that I will like to pursue in 2012, so I will keep you guys updated on that. I will be changing some things with the blog. Nothing major, just upgrading a few things.
I hope you guys have a wonderful Christmas and if I don’t blog for you guys next week, have a wonderful New Year.
So I saw this youtube video circulating on my FB accounts and decided to take a gander. Mayne this shit is so funny, because all this shit is true. I laughed so hard I think I peed on myself a little. I know so many women that say and do half of the shit mentioned in the video. I thought it was funny so I wanted to share it. Shoutout to Billy Sorrells for this parody. That shit is pure comedy. How many of ya’ll really say half this shit?
*Notice I use the word shit a lot because the video is “Shit Black Girls Say” and you know I thought it was only right to emphasis my words with shit. Just something I thought of. LOL Enjoy!
“We’re both adults. If we have sex after the first date I won’t look at her any differently” Have you ever heard that line before? Most men that want to get into your panties in the first two weeks of actually knowing you drop that line to make you feel “comfortable.” Basically he wants you to know that he wants to f*ck you, but he feels that he has to make you feel comfortable enough to give it to him. Most men say if you give him the Vag on the first date he won’t look at you differently…o_O. Some women fall for it and give it up, but is it her mind that’s makes her think he has changed or has he really changed after sex?
*In my Sophia from Golden Girls voice* Picture it…you’re out in the park having lunch alone. A handsome stranger walks up to you and engages you in small talk. He makes you blush and you give him your number. He calls you later on that evening and and you talk about going out on a date that weekend. You’re excited because let’s face it you haven’t been on a date since Lil Kim’s breasts were real. Before you pick out your “let him imagine me nekkid” dress you pull out your computer and Google the sweet guy you have a hot date with. You find out he has filed for bankruptcy twice, wanted for child support in 3 states and lives with a woman that shares his last name *momma or wife you pick* either way not a good sign. So what do you do with this tidbit of information? Do you ignore what you read and go out with him anyway? Do you call Mr. Wonderful back and tell him to take a long walk off a short pier? Does Google really help or harm your love life?
You’re about the only person I actually feel comfortable saying this to. I’m beginning to think my man likes men. I know it sounds so odd and you may think I’m calm and ok with it, but I’m not. I started having some suspicions about 2 weeks ago. First off my man is very manly. He isn’t flamboyant and doesn’t resemble a gay man. It’s just I got this feeling in the pit of my stomach that something isn’t right and I don’t know how to go about handling or even confirming this.
It always amazes me when I hear that certain women become engaged. Not that most women don’t deserve to be happy, but it’s the bitchy one’s that seem to lock a man in. On Sunday I watched an episode of Bridezilla, and I was amazed that these dudes that looked perfectly sane even asked these crazy heffas to marry them. I know the majority of these women show out for the camera, but there is always some truth to the madness. So this shit leads me to believe, that crazy bitches always prosper while the sane chicks are left single and in search of Mr. Right.
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