*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature readers/bloggers that got thangs to say. I want you to give a special hand to Beyonca Stone.
It’s a fact men make women go crazy. (Women make men go crazy but that is another story.) Crazy. Not that he put it down so good he got me climbing the walls. I am talking about the dressed in a black lurking outside your house, calling your phone blocked,trying to hack your facebook account crazy.
There is that one person that has the power over us to make us go bonkers. Sure their sex game may be on point (better be on point) but it is something they say. Its how the smile at us. Wipe away our tears. Hold us when we are down. Cook for us and hold us up when it seems like the world is tearing us down.
I know, I know how can that turn a woman crazy? Well in between these o so wonderful gestures of love and lust he puts you through more hell than the devil himself can stand. He loves you, he doesn’t. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship but he doesn’t want you to be with anyone else. You’re the best he ever had but he doesn’t miss you. Doesn’t want have sex right now but o and by the way I had two kids while we have been feeling this non-relationship out. (My personal favorite.)
You are fighting a losing battle. You love and hate him in the same breath. You cry and laugh, destroy and clean. That’s when the crazy bitch kicks in and you lose YOU. Now you are calling him from random numbers to see if he will pick up. You got your friends that work for the state checking into his background. Lets not forget the drive-bys, unannounced visits, late night lurking and the homeboy courting (hoping they drop a dime on him). A half ass excuse of a man is not worth your sanity. Be smart. You don’t want to be the “crazy girl” he tells all his boys about because once you get the title it is hard to shake.
Is he worth the heartache? Can you live without him. More importantly is he in as much pain as you or is he out with the boys looking for his next prey. People often confuse love and lust and let their that dictate their actions. Ladies we have to learn to not let out walls (and panties) fall so easily. Be careful who you give your heart to. They might not deserve it.
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