Attention VI
Have u ever felt the need to go f*ck a stranger cause your so extremely horny and feel like u can’t control yourself or have someone to do if for u???(out of breath right now!!!) I have this problem right now… It’s not that I can’t get a release from anyone, but the person who suppose to do it for me ain’t doing his job. I am not suppose to be looking at other alternatives when I have a man… He suppose to be made available anytime for these sessions. Have I told him how I feel about the situation???yes and no… I told him i he don’t want other people eating off of his “plate of food” he better get his act together…Because men suppose to like these type of things.. Or am I a sex fiend??? I would consider myself a sex fiend only cause in my past relationships, almost all of them was because of the great sex or the best oral…All I do is think about sex… I dream of it, as well as smell it all the time… I think about doing different stuff all the time… I want to be excellent at it… I want to learn new stuff…. It’s no fun learning them by myself, but I really love this individual and see him as not only my husband, but also as a friend and my baby daddy… Is there anything I can do without feeling the need to cheat??
Fiendin for it
Dear Fiendin for it,
…..UM…Hmmmm. Girl I think you got a sex problem. The reason I say that is because…well *whispers* you smelling it? Lol. Naw, I do think it’s the fact that you’re somewhat unsatisfied at home that leads you to constantly crave it. He’s not doing the job that you want him to do, so you just want to go buck wild on some woman’s poor boy child. It’s common to feel this way if things ain’t kicking off at the crib, the thing is not to act on it. If you love this man like you say you do, that alone should cause you not to cheat. If you do have a sex problem you need to seek help. Right now it’s like you’re a time bomb ready to explode at any moment.
I can never say this enough communication is key to any relationship. You need to let that man know what’s really going on. Throwing little hints here and there ain’t gonna get that p*ssy busted open. He needs to know the severity of this, and do what he needs to do to keep his woman happy. Men don’t rely on hints to know what’s going on, cause half the time their asses are so oblivious to the fact that your hinting shit to them. Get that man on the right track. I won’t encourage anyone to cheat. All I have to say is, if you’re thinking about cheating then you might as well end the relationship. That hour of random dick is gonna cause hell in your relationship. Plus, if your not sexually compatible with your man then your gonna forver have a problem. Sex is one of the major issues when it comes to relationships. Someone either wants too much or someone doesn’t want any. This is where the conflicts lie. If you and your boo isn’t on the same page sexually, the cheating thought will always be on your mind.
So my final answer is talk to your man and stop throwing hints. If you cheat, I hope you know what your getting yourself into because if he finds out you probably would have realized that shit wasn’t worth it.
I’ve really hoped I’ve helped you in some way. I am not an expert, I just give my opinions as I see fit. The decision is ultimately yours to make, so I hope you make one that is in your best interest. Keep me posted!
xoxoxox
