I know sex is important with any budding relationship. Hell if the dick ain’t no good, I don’t pass go. What if you met someone that you had a connection with and the first time you let him hit his dick sucked. Your bodies weren’t in sync, his penis could barely stand at attention and he kept missing the right hole. *Which ever hole tickles your fancy* The first time never really seems to pan out the way we expected. Sometimes nerves can get the best of them and make a night that should have been ecstasy filled, turn into a night where your pussy got assaulted by a foreign dick. So would you just kick “Dead Dick Desmond” out of your bed never to let his dick darken your door again? Our would you give him a second chance to see if it was just nerves or just him?

I believe in second chances when it comes to sex. If I like you and we’re hitting it off on a real level kind of way, when we go there and it’s not up to par I would hit it again…just to make sure. I learned some men have performance anxiety. They think of the sex so much to the point where they choke at performance time. It’s not always there fault…well maybe it is but never tell them that. I give it another shot because you never know the second time you might be in rhythm with each other and your back gets blown da fuck out. You just can’t judge off the first piece of dick you were given. Maybe he had a hard day at the job and his dick is stuck on his 9-5. You just never know, so don’t be too quick to judge.

I remember I once had sex with a guy that I was talking to, but when we had sex for the first time I was in shock and awe. The sex was horrible and I told him flat out “I ain’t never having sex with you again.” I thought his dick game was gonna be vicious but I guess I was wrong. His penis was all over the place. He was making all kinds of unnecessary noises and I swear this man fucked a pillow for a good 3 mins thinking it was me. Lol, but I digress. The fact was before the sex I really liked him. I was not gonna let one bad night of it ruin a good potential. So I decided to give it another go. Not right away, but I gave it a little time before I let him play in my wonderland again. So the second time I went in with minimal expectations. If his dick sucked a second time there was no way I could continue this situation. Although I liked him, if we had no sexual chemistry then what was the point of an actual relationship? So I took a deep breath and went there and to be honest, the second time around was actually a surprise to me. This dude was on point…made me nut a few times. I was knocked out by the end of our session. I came to the conclusion that his nerves got him on the first go round.

So ladies, never count a man out on the first try. Sometimes his nerves just get the best of him. I realize that with some men if they’re really feeling you and it’s about that time, they get nervous that they won’t live up to your standards. Sad, but true. If you really like him gave him that chance to prove you wrong. You never know you might be surprised that he can put it down. If you do it a second time and it’s just the pits, baybaay um that’s up to you chile. They say third times the charm, but um yea that’s your call. I won’t put myself through another disappointing dick excursion.

Holla at me: *In my Massengill commercial voice* Have you ever had sex that was…not too fresh?