What do you do when your man wants the goodies, but you’re not in the mood? Do you tell him “No not tonight” or do you spread your legs and let him climb on top of you and do his bidness befo you can say amen *in my Nettie voice*? Fellas need to realize there are just sometimes that we’re not in the mood to get all natural with them. Ok once a month is natural, well except for the nasty “I love the smell on blood on my member” type men. There are just times when a woman just isn’t in the mood. Do we have to pretend that we’re all into it and fake an orgasm so you can feel like a big man with a wet dick head? Or would you understand the fact that we’re not in the mood and accept it. Is that too much to ask, or do women have to give it up just because it’s expected as a woman?
Don’t get me wrong, I think chicks that always turn down sex are evil. You’re in a relationship with someone and every time they want to get down and nekkid you always say “I have a headache. I’m not in the mood”. Like Martin said “I ain’t about to f*ck with your head”. There are some women that use that excuse just so they can be left alone. If you have a legitimate issue as to why you don’t want to, then he should understand. If you’re holding out just because your stories is on and you need to find out if Sonny Corinthos is gonna kill someone over Brenda then you need a kick in your abdomen. Rejecting his man meat just because isn’t acceptable. How can you be in a relationship with someone and make excuses every time he wants to get intimate? If the situation was reversed would you accept his “I’m not in the mood…I have a headache excuse? “
Then women wanna get upset when he starts stepping out the relationship. If you don’t do what needs to be done a man has no problems getting it from the chick up the street. Women are emotional and men are visual. He wants to be able to see and feel the coochie. If you’re rationing the cooch he’s gonna feel rejected by you. Another bitch would be happy as a lark to give your man the shit he’s missing, then she will throw it in your face talking about “If you gave him what he needed, he wouldn’t have to come to me.” If a bitch ever told me that I swear I would drag her by her bargain basement weave, put her in my trunk and…well never mind. At the same time, fellas if your lady is always down to get dirty and she says she’s not in the mood stop hounding her. If she’s really not in the mood, do you think forcing her will make the dick swole? Sex doesn’t always happen on demand. If your woman says “Baby not tonight, I don’t feel good” let her be. Your job is not only to give her the dick down, but to love her and understand her. Giving her the guilt trip because she’s not in the mood to have sex is only gonna have her faking a orgasm. If a fake orgasm is better than no orgasm then I wish you will cause if someone had to fake it I would automatically think your dick ain’t bout shit.
Should a woman be available for sex anytime her man is in the mood?
