Comments on: How Far Would You Go? http://candydiaries.com/how-far-would-you-go/ Sweeter With Every Lick!! Mon, 14 May 2012 17:08:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: DanniGyrl http://candydiaries.com/how-far-would-you-go/comment-page-1/#comment-113 DanniGyrl Wed, 29 Apr 2009 20:31:00 +0000 http://candydiaries.com/?p=35#comment-113 I have never been one to snoop through my man's phone or emails or sniff his collar to see if there are any hints of perfume. Believe you me, if a man is cheating, he will air his own self out in due time. Men are lazy and forget to cover their tracks. I let them make their own beds...<br /><br />I found out about my ex-husband cheating my happenstance. Even though we ended the way we did, I still feel like honesty and trust are the two most important components in a relationship. I don't want my man snooping in my phone and invading my space. So I do onto others as I would like to be done on to me.<br /><br />Women who do this, IMO, seem helpess and have self esteem and control issues. To them I say, get help. :) I have never been one to snoop through my man's phone or emails or sniff his collar to see if there are any hints of perfume. Believe you me, if a man is cheating, he will air his own self out in due time. Men are lazy and forget to cover their tracks. I let them make their own beds…

I found out about my ex-husband cheating my happenstance. Even though we ended the way we did, I still feel like honesty and trust are the two most important components in a relationship. I don't want my man snooping in my phone and invading my space. So I do onto others as I would like to be done on to me.

Women who do this, IMO, seem helpess and have self esteem and control issues. To them I say, get help. :)

]]> By: Missy http://candydiaries.com/how-far-would-you-go/comment-page-1/#comment-112 Missy Wed, 29 Apr 2009 15:12:00 +0000 http://candydiaries.com/?p=35#comment-112 Girl, I snooped back in the day, but I can honestly tell you VIChick, it aint worth it. I am a believer that everything in the dark,shall be revealed in the light. But you know since I have been with this guy for quite sometime, you should know your man! I haven't heard about a woman with mines, not that he isn't doing anything, but I don't hear nor see nothing. With that being said, you got to learn your man - his patterns and behavior.<br /><br />But one of the major reasons, I stop snooping, even though I really want to know, I can't "stomach". So I don't go looking for anything I am not ready or capable of handling. Sometimes you get more than you bargain for! Girl, I snooped back in the day, but I can honestly tell you VIChick, it aint worth it. I am a believer that everything in the dark,shall be revealed in the light. But you know since I have been with this guy for quite sometime, you should know your man! I haven't heard about a woman with mines, not that he isn't doing anything, but I don't hear nor see nothing. With that being said, you got to learn your man – his patterns and behavior.

But one of the major reasons, I stop snooping, even though I really want to know, I can't "stomach". So I don't go looking for anything I am not ready or capable of handling. Sometimes you get more than you bargain for!

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