Comments on: I Am Too Overprotective http://candydiaries.com/i-am-too-overprotective/ Sweeter With Every Lick!! Mon, 14 May 2012 17:08:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Mrs Meade http://candydiaries.com/i-am-too-overprotective/comment-page-1/#comment-16 Mrs Meade Fri, 03 Apr 2009 00:20:00 +0000 http://candydiaries.com/?p=7#comment-16 Missy,<br />Girl no matter how old you get, how many men you have dated or the psychological degrees you may have acquired. The truth is men and relationships are hard work. Don't going to one expecting it to be easy. Let me give you an example, I dated this guy who was my life. I became passive and stupid when it came to him. Now don't get me wrong he wasn't a cheater or a beater, for the most part he was a good guy, and however he wasn't serious about what he wanted. After we had broken (I finally got sick of his shit) I had this attitude like I was so hard. Even though I dated other guys I was never serious about what I wanted with them. It was like I could catch him cheating and I wouldn't have cared. Then I met my husband and he noticed my problem and he said and I quote "What is the use to have a heart and not use it". The truth was I was sick of always giving and never receiving. But here I am a married woman; you never know what you have until you notice what you don't have. So good luck and open your mind and your heart to new experiences, and know that it not you. Relationships are really hard work.<br /><br />***** STAY BLESS ******** Missy,
Girl no matter how old you get, how many men you have dated or the psychological degrees you may have acquired. The truth is men and relationships are hard work. Don't going to one expecting it to be easy. Let me give you an example, I dated this guy who was my life. I became passive and stupid when it came to him. Now don't get me wrong he wasn't a cheater or a beater, for the most part he was a good guy, and however he wasn't serious about what he wanted. After we had broken (I finally got sick of his shit) I had this attitude like I was so hard. Even though I dated other guys I was never serious about what I wanted with them. It was like I could catch him cheating and I wouldn't have cared. Then I met my husband and he noticed my problem and he said and I quote "What is the use to have a heart and not use it". The truth was I was sick of always giving and never receiving. But here I am a married woman; you never know what you have until you notice what you don't have. So good luck and open your mind and your heart to new experiences, and know that it not you. Relationships are really hard work.

***** STAY BLESS ********

]]> By: Missy http://candydiaries.com/i-am-too-overprotective/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Missy Tue, 17 Mar 2009 07:07:00 +0000 http://candydiaries.com/?p=7#comment-15 Again, I am guilty as charged. Girl, for me, I have met men and all of them have proven my saying right, all men are dogs. I know there are good men out there, just like there are great women out here, but I am under impression now that all are either dead, in jail, gay or handicap. I mean, it is a negative way to think and I really try to keep an open mind when I meet new people, especially men, but my antennas stand up when I see or hear something familiar that reflect on a past hurt. Like you said, it can't be every man, we have to put some kind of blame on ourselves. My new lifestyle has been working fine, I now date men for a long time to learn the type of person that they are. Before I would date a man for like 2 weeks and if he wasn'f for me, I would tell him not to call me anymore. No one is perfect, neither am I, so I have started to be more patient. I have also stopped the investigation of everything they do or tell me and let this be and fall into place. I can't lie, it is hard, especially when a man was good at playing you, but my attitude is getting there. Again, I am guilty as charged. Girl, for me, I have met men and all of them have proven my saying right, all men are dogs. I know there are good men out there, just like there are great women out here, but I am under impression now that all are either dead, in jail, gay or handicap. I mean, it is a negative way to think and I really try to keep an open mind when I meet new people, especially men, but my antennas stand up when I see or hear something familiar that reflect on a past hurt. Like you said, it can't be every man, we have to put some kind of blame on ourselves. My new lifestyle has been working fine, I now date men for a long time to learn the type of person that they are. Before I would date a man for like 2 weeks and if he wasn'f for me, I would tell him not to call me anymore. No one is perfect, neither am I, so I have started to be more patient. I have also stopped the investigation of everything they do or tell me and let this be and fall into place. I can't lie, it is hard, especially when a man was good at playing you, but my attitude is getting there.

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