So this Sunday is my 30th birthday and I must say this shit came around fast as hell. I am so grateful and blessed to have gotten this far. There are so many friends that I’ve lost along the way that never made it to this age. God has truly blessed me and for that I am thankful. Within the year I’ve lost some friends and I’ve gained a few. For the one’s I’ve lost I’ve learned no matter how many things you’ve been through together, people just grow apart. The things I did 1o years ago just doesn’t cut it for me now. I’m a grown person for realizing that.
I’ve written about my struggles in love and relationships and I can honestly say I wouldn’t change a thing. Without experiencing what I have I probably wouldn’t be able to appreciate what I’ve got. I’ve been involved in a relationship with someone for a few months and I can honestly admit that he makes me happier than I’ve been in a long time. I want to thank him for coming into my life and making me understand the meaning of friendship and true love. I never expected this relationship. I guess when you least expect it is when it actually moves you more. I love you baby…thank you!!
You guys are the absolute best!!! You guys are the reason I continue to blog. I’ve battled with getting rid of Candy Diaries because I felt like I was losing my initial edge. As I read my past blogs I seemed like a male basher, a bitter bitch that couldn’t get over shit. I wrote in an angry tone. I realized that the people in my past made me into that chick. They’ve helped and harmed me in a major way. I felt like I couldn’t write about certain things, because I felt like I was alone. I realized that I wasn’t the only woman out there hurting. We all have pasts, but it’s truly the past when you can move on from it. You’ve helped me move on!!! Thankies babies!!!
Ok enough of the sappy shit. I’m still gonna be that bitch that brings it with the realness. I’m still gonna keep it 1000 *Yes 1000* and tell you the truth. I don’t sugar-coat so if you’re expecting that because I’m in love and shit, you better keep it moving. It’s a 30’s thang! You know old people say whatever they want and no one can tell em they’re wrong because they’re old right? LMAO. I ain’t old…well I’m older than I was 10 years ago.
Again, thank you guys from the bottom of my heart. From the depths of my soul. You guys make me wanna be the awesomest chick out there.
Love
V.I.
xoxoxoxoxo
Laya
Comment made on April 2, 2010 @ 11:39 am
Wow Happy Birthday V.I… I’m so happy you found love. That gives me hope that it will happen to me. Luv you girl!!!
Veronica
Comment made on April 2, 2010 @ 3:31 pm
Happy Birthday! Your blog is the bizness!! Love it!
GoodasGal
Comment made on April 2, 2010 @ 10:43 pm
Happy Birthday.I’ve been reading your blog for awhile now…it’s good to “see” the transformation you’ve made in your writings and perceptions.
V.I.
Comment made on April 2, 2010 @ 11:25 pm
Thank you so much ladies…You guys are truly appreciated
Loves it.....
Comment made on April 3, 2010 @ 10:20 pm
*~* HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!*~* ENJOY IT AND GO HARD!! OR ATLEAST I’LL GO HARD FOR YOU!! LOL
Apple
Comment made on April 5, 2010 @ 5:28 pm
Happy Bday V.I. Yes please continue to bring the real ish. We are depending on you to keep our heads out of the clouds, our feet on solid ground and our minds right! when our hearts are making us do wrong. Keep on keeping on! We need ya!
Keli
Comment made on April 6, 2010 @ 9:57 pm
Happy Belated Birthday! Hope it was all you hoped for and wanted.