Every woman has THAT damn friend. That type of friend that finds everything negative in life. This bitch is never happy….NEVER. No matter what great things go on in anyone’s life, she always finds a way to make you feel like shit. It’s a simple case of misery loves company. Her life isn’t going the way she planned, so she hates on anyone because their shit is falling into place. Even though she’s negative, you don’t kick her to the curb because when push comes to shove she’s got your back. The most of the time her whole negativity stems from being alone. I find a lot of times if a woman is single and all her best girlfriends are hooked up, she’s depressed over her shit. Its ok, we understand.
I was compelled to write about this topic because I thought about something a friend of mine said. You guys heard me talk about the “Model in my Bedroom” right? Well in the beginning when we first started seeing each other I introduced him to one of my friends. We were all out to the club one night and I wanted her to meet the guy I talked about constantly. I introduced them and she was very cordial to him. The next day we’re on the phone and I asked her “What did you think of him”? This BITCH had the nerve to say “He’s fine, but he’s gonna hurt you”. *Taking deep breaths* Ok at first I was silent because I was like: what the fuck she means by that? I closed my eyes and said a silent prayer to God cause I was about to sin my soul over the phone. I brought it down a thousand and I calmly asked “Why do you think that”? This bitch had the sheer nerve to say “Because he’s too attractive for you”. *Blank stare* WTF…Does this heffa see a dog when she looks at me? The Lord was my sheppard that night, cause I nearly went holy ghost on her ass. See this is the shit I’m talking about. People jealous cause they ain’t got shit popping for them. Now the only reason she said that shit was because she had nothing going on in her life. No man, no cutt buddy, not even a pussy licker….NOTHING. Just mad cause once again I got my shit going. He wasn’t the first fine man I ever pulled, hell I stayed with fine men in my catalog. Well one dude with uglier than a pimple on Lil Wayne’s face, but that shit was a charity relationship.
It doesn’t even have to be about relationships with her. It can be anything and this heffa would find a way to make your sunny day cloudy as hell. I believe the longer you let negativity enter your life, that’s all your gonna get. Even if shit isn’t going the way you expect it, don’t hate on someone else because their life is moving a little faster. How can you consider yourself a friend if you’re discouraging everything positive that’s going on? As time goes on, you can’t deal with chicks like that. Shit starts rubbing off on you and your mentality starts getting tainted because of it. Don’t hate because you and your homegirl were looking at the same guy and he chose to talk to her. Don’t hate because you stuck working at Burger Barn because you dropped out of high school, and your homegirl has her college degree and handling her career. Get your shit together and stop pissing on other folks. There is nothing about that, this is considered a friendship. Ladies, if you have this type of bitch in your life and she’s getting worse by the year…Dump her. Dump her? Yes bitch…dump her.
Holla at me: Do you have/had this type of friend in your life?
