There is nothing wrong with giving head; nothing at all. The problem I find is that some women give head to EVERY man that has a dick. There are men I couldn’t suck on if I had Superhead’s mouth. You know that chick would suck anything lol, but I digress. A woman should never be ashamed of giving head, but I do feel a woman should never give if he isn’t willing to return the favor.
I find it so funny that as grown as some people claim to be, some still have problems admitting that love oral sex. What the hell is the big deal? The experience is pleasurable for you and him. The fact that you can make him buck and shiver with the flick of your tongue is an amazing feeling. Women fail to realize the power that they have, and the ones that know they have the power act too cute to use it.
When a woman first meets a man, she knows weather she wants to f*ck him or not. A woman never debates about head in her mind. She does damn near everything when she mentally visualizes it, but when they actually start discussing sex or performs the act she acts like the shit is gross or something. I must admit I have done it a time or two back in the day, because I viewed it as something a hoe would do. A woman never wants to be thought of as slack, especially to a man that she finds attractive. So we play the shy, coy role. That is until someone starts pouring glasses of Patron, and here your ass is lap dancing and taking the dick to the head.
Holla at me: When a man asks if you’re into oral sex. Are you honest at first?
Anonymous
Comment made on March 25, 2009 @ 11:19 am
Yes Im very honest but that doen't mean u have to do it with every man u have slept with or going to sleep with. To me it's only for the one yr in a committed relationship with. i have heard so much girls act like they never or don't do it & thinks it's the nasty thing ever. then when they find someone who they feel is a keeper or so special an it becomes so sexy or wathever they want to call it. all i know i only perform it with the person im in a committed relationship with an knows for a fact their's no other person in his life than me.
VI Chick
Comment made on March 25, 2009 @ 11:29 am
Anon,
That is exactly what I am trying to say. If your gonna do it, it needs to be with someone that matters to you. Women go out and just give head all willy nilly. That isn't very sexually responsible at all.
And the chicks that act like they don't do it are the first ones to drop to the floor and deep throat that bad boy.
Missy
Comment made on March 25, 2009 @ 6:08 pm
VIChick:
It is according to who the man is, I will be honest with my "oral obligation to the penis". I enjoy it however, I am not discussing with a man I have no intentions of do it to. Some men bring it up to sudden and for them, they want to know everything one time without wanting to learn me more…then if and when our first sexual encounter happens, they expect me to bless on his mike. Things don't go that way with me. If I am feeling the guy to be a long term thing or we have that understanding, I will share that I do perform oral sex….but he has to be willing to fulfill my oral fantasies as well.
VI Chick
Comment made on March 25, 2009 @ 6:15 pm
Missy,
That is the way I feel. If I do it first of all I have to be in a relationship that I see as long term. If you're a random Joe Blow and you think I am going to wet your pole, I will laugh in your face.
Missy
Comment made on March 25, 2009 @ 10:52 pm
VIChick:
Same thing I would do too!
Boss Ladi Toya
Comment made on March 26, 2009 @ 10:52 am
Honestly, I've done that one time in all my almost 30 years. And that was with my ex-husband (father of my daughter) I've never really cared for giving it. And growing up, it was told to young girls that if you do it, u just a hoe. That's why a lot of women who do it on the regular claim that they don't do it at all. But, in my book, I feel like to each his/her own. Do what you like? Do what you feel? I would never judge. Lickin' the lollipop is just not my cup of tea.
Mrs. Meade
Comment made on March 31, 2009 @ 5:19 pm
TY
I would have to agree, as a woman the first thing shouldn't be hey you look fine, wha me suck your dick? I think it comes naturally in the heat of things when your with the right person of course, it just happens. I think a good dick suck is one you never have to bring up. If you discuss it before it happens it's giving him tooo much props. Let the son-of-a-bitch work for it. I do agree not all men earns that pass….
****STAY BLESS*****
VI Chick
Comment made on March 31, 2009 @ 9:20 pm
Mrs.Meade,
Girl, some women are too slack nowadays and just giving the head away. There must be a selection process, can't be suck on every Tom, Dick, and Harpo. lol
Sunshyne
Comment made on April 2, 2009 @ 1:34 pm
If a man asks me if I do it I'm gon say I'm grown and I hope you are too! I don't understand why people are still lying about it after a certain age.
Princess0889
Comment made on February 2, 2010 @ 9:26 pm
I will say that I've done it before but I will not brag about how well it is performed or how good it's going to feel because that type of thing all about perception. I will down play how good it is to weasel my way out of it if I just ain't feeling it that day.
holidaymoore
Comment made on February 8, 2010 @ 12:22 am
There is nothing wrong with giving head just do a back round check on the dick dick you plan on sucking.