Ok, so it’s Christmas day. The day all little kids dream of and all parents spend money they don’t have. Now that it’s here we have one week until 2010 is upon us and I wanted to remind everyone that we all need to go into the new year with a clear path. All unresolved issues need to be cleared before we enter the new year. So whatever lingering relationship you think you’re in, you need to figure out if taking that shit into 2010 is worth the hassle. I mean why the hell would you want to bring shit from a year that you obviously had issues when you can start a new? I’ve decided to make a list the shit that I am leaving in 2009.
1. Being Po~ I’m not actually poor, but I know I need to get my money up in 2010. The “recession” only seems to be happening to certain people and I happen to be one of them. I need to make my ends longer so I can get get get it.
2. Get rid of dead weight~ Anything dead isn’t worth saving. Like split ends. Why you holding on to it for? Anything dead in my life will be dumped come 2010. If you don’t contribute anything to my life I have no use for you. You’re taking up valuable space and that shit isn’t gonna fly anymore. If you know me personally and you feel like I’m talking about you, then it might just be your lame ass.
3. Celibacy OVER~ iCant with this celibacy shit anymore. I mean ok, I went this long without it, but now my point and motives are over. I am just depriving myself of some great ass wood. I refuse to have my body shut down from lack of dick. You know you get sicker from lack of sex right? I done had bronchitis, a sinus infection, and a cold every other week. I need some good man wood.
4. Stop seeking advice from the lonely and desperate~ Ok so I have a few friends that are very bitter. When I say bitter I mean these heffas think everything is a motive for something. For example …”He says he wants to take me out. Do you think I should go”?… her “Girl he’s trying to just f*ck you and leave your ass”. Why it gotta be all that? Why the f*ck am I asking your lonely ass anything for in the first place? What can you possibly tell me that would be positive? Chile Bye!!!
5. Live My Life~ I think this year I’ve neglected to actually enjoy my life. I held back on doing certain things, going certain places all because I just wasn’t in the mood. I’m doing my own thang this year. No more waiting or holding out. We got one life to live people, let’s get ta living it.
Have you ever thought of what you wanted to leave behind in 2009? Do you see yourself following through with it? In all I predict 2010 will be a better year than 2009 ever was. Shit I wish today was Dec 31 so we can start fresh and new in the morning. Well I hope you guys enjoy the rest of the day with your families and loved ones. Even if you’re by yourselves it’s ok. Continue to give thanks for the things and the life you do have instead of dwelling on what you don’t.
Love,
V.I.
xoxoxoxoxo
Keli
Comment made on December 25, 2009 @ 12:48 pm
I have been celibate for 3 years…started off involuntary, but now…I really have to stop and analyze the situation…it’s been this long, makes it harder to give it up just because he’s there, ready, willing, and able…yet I’ve come close at least once each year of celibacy…but the longer I go, the harder it gets…and I seem to gain weight when I go without it… *sigh*
Merry Christmas…and I’m ready for 2010 as well…out with the old, in with the New…but I will still enjoy each day of 2009 that God see’s fit to bless me with.
cypher
Comment made on December 25, 2009 @ 11:43 pm
this is a great post! I am so ready for 2010 to be mine. I’ve adopted the attitude that if there is a challenge in my life it is my responsibility to make it better. Career, relationship, finances, etc…it is important to get rid of what clearly does not work or make me happy. I’m at the stage in my life where I’m ready to give, because I have almost everything in place-career, own home, and am no longer in that super selfish stage. But it is still about what makes me happy.