In my opinion, the saddest sight to see is someone that is too clingy. No matter what time of day, what the situation she wants to be around her boo 24/7. I have no issues with spending that quality time, but I do know some women that take it a little overboard. Being the clingy chick will defiantly drive your honey away.
There was one guy I dated a few years back that actually wanted me to cling to him. I never considered myself as the clingy type, so when he made that statement I was floored. I asked him why that was something that he wanted, he had the nerve to say “When a woman clings to me, I know she is really into me“. I thought that was a very insecure ass statement. This man needed a chick to feed his self-esteem, because clearly he had none to begin with.
I think women cling to men, because they have a fear of being alone. Some women want to be everything they think the man wants, so they go a little over the top. I don’t believe it’s intentional, but they don’t realize that he may find their actions as a turn off. I think it is more evident when he is out with his boys. An insecure clingy woman calls like every ten min, questioning him on what he is doing. You’re embarrassing him in front of his crew, and it shows you’re insecure and have trust issues. What man would like that? Well the one guy I dated would, but he was a weirdo anyway, don’t count that fellow.
Holla at me: Do you consider yourself as a clingy chick? Do you know a woman/man that latches on to someone for dear life?
Missy
Comment made on March 19, 2009 @ 7:49 pm
I can't lie at first when I am into a guy, I am very clingy, not because I am insecure but I enjoy his companionship and conversation. But I must admit, if he is with his boys, I gave him that space and allow him to return my call when he is finished. But you know some men like that, but I realized like you say, they are men that has low self-esteem or has been distant relationship, whether from hurt or whatever. But there are some guys that hates the clinginess. I like it for a time but after I'm like back off, I need my own space. Not that I am up to anything bad, but I does need my breathing space. It depends on the person.
Sunshyne
Comment made on April 2, 2009 @ 1:50 pm
It's easy to become clingy when you first start talking to someone, but you have to know how to take a step back and check yourself. You have to make sure the both of you are on the same lane. A lot of times I've seen that one person is moving a lot faster than the other and that will always cause a problem. When you move too fast you miss things that you would have seen otherwise and saved yourself some problems.