Ms. Miserable

Ms. Miserable

One of the things I hate when dealing with women is females who have a Ms. Miserable in their close circle of friends. Who is Ms. Miserable? It’s that one friend(s) who’s so happy, single, and “Independent” but deep down inside she’s miserable. A large amount of females have an Ms. Miserable in their crew of friends.  These are the type of chicks that always tell you that they wanna see you happy, but deep down inside they wanna see you miserable along with them. The saying “misery loves company” is not to be taken lightly. I had a few of these chicks interfere in a couple of my relationships in the past and it was one of the most annoying experiences ever. As a man, we know once a woman’s friends start getting in their ear bad talking us, here comes the BS.

Signs of Ms. Miserable

1. They are extremely overprotective of you, but ONLY when it comes to your love life though
2. They claim they want to see you happy, but they show signs of being unhappy their selves. No unhappy individual wants to see others happy.
3. They don’t like any of the men that you get involved with
4. They always encourage you to stay single
5. They hate men in general

If you ever want to drop off of a dude’s radar, involve your Ms. Miserable friend in your relations. That’s one of the deal breakers with me next to bad hygiene, bad attitudes, and dependency. Most men will agree, we all dislike Ms. Miserable. A great deal of the time, Ms. Miserable knows little to nothing about the guy but she constantly throws salt at him.  The only thing she does know is that he dates her friend, so she assumes the role of the “over protective friend.” When dating or getting to know a female, there is nothing more annoying than one of her friends being involved like she’s the 3rd mate in the relationship. Ladies, have you ever wonder why some things didn’t never work out with a guy that you really liked? Well, if Ms. Miserable was involved chances are she may have caused the fallout.

As a dude, I can’t have miserable dudes  in my circle of friends. I wouldn’t want a dude “blocking” or hating on a female who I’m kicking it with. Some dudes allow their friends to hate on the females that their involved with, but some don’t. There are some Mr. Miserable’s out there as well. On the homeboy side of things, and the female side of things where a female has male friends. It’s nothing worse than trying to get to know a female and her male friend blocks like it’s his career.

If you have a Ms/Mr. Miserable in your circle, keep them away from your dating life. You can still be friends with them, but do not involve them in your dating life. They may seem like their overprotective and care so much about your love life, but in reality, these people are dangerous. If your friends really want to see you happy, they will let you do what makes you happy. Ms. Miserable portrays a role of playing inspector to your dating life, but the problem is that you’re supposed to be playing inspector, not your friends. Truth is, Ms. Miserable only wants to see her friend’s happy if she is the purpose or cause of their happiness. Caution, once again do not involve your miserable friends into your love life. I’m out!

Domino

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