My Top 11 Deal Breakers In Relationships

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4. A Man That Refuses to Learn How To Bone~ There are some men out here that can swear up and down on their man meat that they can please any woman. In actuality, they have no idea that their shit sucks. These women out here fooling these men faking orgasms and whatnot and when you get a hold of him you lay their like “WTF is this suppose to be about”. If you sit him down nicely and tell him your gripe he refuses to believe he has a problem because so many women before praised his pickle. I feel in the bedroom you can train a man or a woman to please you how you love to be please, but if they refuse to acknowledge that they have an issue that is a major problem. I can’t train you if you refuse the training. Not every woman’s lady button enjoys the same pleasure. You have to be able to learn her body before you hop on it. If you refuse to learn, then we can’t tango sir.

3. Non Ambition Having So and So~ I love a man with drive and ambition. That is one of the sexiest things to me when it comes to dating. If I can sit down and have a conversation with a man and he tells me his goals and what he’s doing to attain those goals I am instantly turned on. It shows me that your not just about hanging out with your homies and chasing after women. You’re chasing your dreams and I have all the right to respect you for it. If you just sitting at the house content with your job or lack thereof and don’t see a future advancing to anywhere other than where you are now then let me be. I am not in the habit of taking care of men that can’t take care of me if the time comes. I see so many women struggle with 9-5, kids and a man that don’t do shit. He’s at the house playing with his X-box all day or driving her car stunting like he’s a baller, when she’s holding down the kids, house and bills. I really don’t know how a woman can be content with taking care of a man just to say “I got a man”. I don’t need a man that damn bad.

2. You Got The Chris Brown Syndrome~ If you think you a man put your hands on me. If you wanna know how a bullet to the effing chest feels like, come and test me. This is a major deal breaker. If you think punching me makes you a man then we cannot have any goings on. I don’t condone domestic abuse so I will never be in a relationship where it happens. If by some chance a dude gets bold enough and thinks he can hit me is the day his momma will lay out her nice dress on the bed cause either me or my brothers gonna kill this dude. There is gonna be some slow singing and flower bringing  if you think your ass gonna start swinging. I know someone very close to me in this situation. Her man beats her continuously and she just lets him do it. She has children and just got pregnant on purpose and this dude still beats the shit out of her. No matter how many times you encourage her to leave, she always lets him back in. I told her “You’re doing this to yourself and your kids. You’re gonna stay until he finally kills you”. Not sure if that is gonna seep into her brain, but I doubt it. I know people always say “Never say never”, but I WILL NEVER LET A MAN PUT HIS HANDS ON ME. If he does lose his mind and do it, that will definitely be the first and the last time that shit happens. Hell if your ass push me the wrong way I’m f*cking you up.

1. A Liar is Worse Than A Cheater~ I hate a lying man. I can’t stand the ground this dude walks on. I can’t stand cheaters also, but when a person continuously lies and starts to believe the lie they’re telling you, then fool has issues. Even if you think the truth will hurt me, I rather you tell me that than make up this big ass lie which always get revealed sooner or later. Your lies make the shit worse in the end. For the life of me I can never understand why men lie so much.Sometimes telling the truth gets you farther than the lie ever would. I can’t associate myself with someone that has to constantly lie about everything. I can’t respect you or expect respect back, so what’s the point of getting close?

These are just a few of the deal breakers when it comes to my relationships. I have a lot more, but frankly I done gave 11 and I am tired. There are some on the list that may seem a little petty, but with fine tuning those can be tweaked. The major one’s are things I am very serious about and any sign or inclination that you’re that way gets a GTFOH from me. I refuse to just take anything that comes up to me. If you don’t come with substance, then don’t come at all. Like I said I have no problem taking care of 18 cats and a parakeet or two.

Holla at me: What are some of your deal breakers in relationships?

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