When you’re in a relationship, how long do you wait before you start going at it raw? A month, or do you wait until your 6 month anniversary and give him that dick to cooch penetration? Better yet you might want to wait until he does what Bey says and “Put’s a ring on it” first? Everyone has their own timeline when they feel like sexing without a condom is right for them. If you are in that special relationship and you’re ready to take things more serious, you need to sit and have that talk. The kind of talk where you discuss what you expect, and what steps you need to take to make your raw dawg experience a pleasurable one.
1. Discuss your intentions~Before you start screwing without rubbers all willy nilly you need to talk about it first. I need you to decide if your relationship is just gonna contain your screw, or you’re free to screw other folks. If you gonna be fucking other people, you don’t need to go raw with anyone.
2. Get Tested~ I know some folks out there are too scared to know their status, but the shit needs to be done. You don’t want to start having a condom-less relationship and the next thing you know that nasty heffa gave an STD or worse. Go to the clinic together, this will not only build your bond stronger you can actually see this negro go in and take the test.
3. Keep it stationed~ Once you decide to go raw there should be no more sex with anyone else. If you’re in a relationship or just cutting, you still need to keep the whole sex thing with one person if you decide on getting rid of the condom. Diseases don’t just jump on dicks…being careless with your health and others makes that shit happen.
4. Unexpected shit ~ So you decide to do the raw thang…well do you homie. Just remember that ol girl can easily become your brand spanking new baby momma. I know the pussy feels good to you, and you just can’t bring yourself to pull out. Just know if you have sex period anything can happen, and since you have sex unprotected don’t be surprised if she calls and says she’s with child. With sex you always run the risk of it happening, but when you go raw you’re basically allowing it to happen.
5. Savor the moment~ Every time you hit it raw I think you need to bask in the glow. Just having that opportunity to feel skin to skin is rare in this day and age. Well if the dick is tiny I think going raw is a waste of time, but hey that’s just my opinion. Use it as you wish.
Please be careful out there people. There are some folks that act like their all for the condom and in the middle of the shit, they take it off. Watch that dude like a hawk. People are sneaky as hell. Sure if feels like heaven on a sunny day without a condom on, but finding out that you got something for being stupid can make your life feel worthless.
