Behind The Blog: Story Behind Original Blog “Would You Stay If He Got Someone Else Pregnant?”




Hey guys, so it’s another episode of my Behind The Blog series on Youtube. This week I’m talking about the story behind my blog ” Would You Stay If He Got Someone Else Pregnant?”. I’m telling the full story about finding out the boyfriend at the time had an entire black ass family behind my back. It was devastating at the time, but it was a huge learning experience. This is a lot of women’s plight, when dealing with a man that can’t seem to keep his thang to himself. 

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*Vintage* The Interview:The Plight of the Cheating Man


I know we’re so off that Tiger Woods thing, but his situation made me wonder what goes through a person’s mind when they decide to cheat. What are their relationships like? Why do they continue? I’ve decided to interview 2 people that are either currently or formally in a cheating relationship. First up I decided to interview a guy that is currently in a relationship, but is also cheating on his girlfriend. The names in these blogs will remain anonymous. I don’t want nobody ass to get whopped on the count of my shit.

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Are You Purposely Sabotaging Your Relationships?


When it comes to relationships, you have people who are successful and others that just can’t seem to get it right. Those that jump from relationship to relationship are sometimes under the notion that they’re just not meeting the right people. That may be true, but what if you’re just not right in relationships? Many people seeking relationships unknowingly sabotage any chances of being in a  successful one. We’ve known people who crave love, but when they finally get into a relationship it is over in the blink of an eye. No matter how much they seem to be into their partner, it just never lasts. That person might be self-sabotaging their relationships. Self sabotage is subtle at first, but as the relationship grows it builds and eventually destroys it. Below are a few signs that you might be sabotaging your relationships.

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Brandy I Love You, But I Don’t Believe The Lies You Tell *Video*


Brandy recently sat down with the ladies of the talk show “The Real”, and when asked about her dating status Brandy admitted that she is not currently dating and she’s just doing her. When the subject of marriage came up Brandy also stated that she no longer see it for walking down the aisle and she’s off the whole marriage idea. I DO NOT BELIEVE THE LIES SHE TELLS.

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Tara Wallace of #LHHNY Reveals She’s Pregnant AGAIN For Peter Gunz *video*



*Rubs temples in aggravation* I have never in all my life witnessed so much stupidity in action as I’ve seen on Love and Hip Hop New York.  On Monday’s episode Tara  Wallace revealed to Dr.Jeff that not only can she not understand the “hold” that Peter has on her, but she is also pregnant with his child. As you all know her entire plot line revolves around the love triangle between Tara, Peter and his wife Amina. These two women have been going back and forth for almost 4 seasons over Peter’s trash ass. Peter goes back and forth with these fools and all they do is argue and carry on with each other, ignoring the fact that this piece of shit isn’t worth it. Oh not only is Tara pregnant, but Amina was also pregnant at the same time with his baby but decided to have an abortion. Sorry to say but that was the smartest decision ever.


Anyway, I decided put in my two cents and give Ms Tara and all the other Tara’s out there some advice. Check out the video below and don’t foget to subscribe to the Candy Diaries channel 


QOTD: What do you think of Tara and her dumb ass mentality?



Vintage Post: Is Submission The Key To Success?


I’ve realized that a lot of couples never speak about this topic. When women hear the word submissive they immediately give the “The motherf*cker must be crazy” side eye.  I will admit the thought of given into submission is kinda of archaic, but if your man/husband is doing what he needs to do as the man of the relationship…why not?

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