5. A Married Man
Hell forgive me but I think this is a given. Before I even go into this we first have to describe the 3 major types of married men. Oh yes…there are three types of married men that in my opinion ya’ll need to stay away from. 1. You got the married man who  cheats and makes you believe that he’s unhappy and he feels complete because of you. This man generally has no intention of leaving his wife and tells you what you want to hear just to have an extra piece of ass laying around. 2. This is the man that is legally separated and about to go through the whole process of divorce. I think this man is off limits too, because legally he is still married. 3. Finally you have the married man that makes it clear that he’s not leaving his wife, but has no problem stepping out every once in a while.
Now that I’ve broken down the types of married men, let me touch on the type of women that knowingly date married men. There are some women out here that only date married men…because they know they can’t “fully commit”. A lot of women are afraid to commit just like some men out here. With a married man you have the benefits of being involved without all the added responsibilities. You can go and come as you please, don’t expect too many late night pop ups and his ass can’t really say shit because he’s going home to someone else. Like Taye Diggs said in the movie Brown Sugar… “I call them the Cyndi Lauper girls…they just wanna have fun”.
Then you have the women who look at a married man as proven. He’s settled and has no qualms about “committing”. He obviously isn’t afraid of marriage, he would be the obvious choice to get involved with right? WRONG!!! A married man senses what type of woman you seem to be and uses that to his advantage. Don’t fall for it girl. I guess I am too afraid of karma cause I don’t even want to know a married man’s name. Don’t talk to me, ask me nothing or compliment me. Matter of fact stand your ass 10 feet away from me. I don’t want your lies and deceit rubbing off on me. I would love to get married one day and I don’t want my marriage collapsing because I stole some poor woman’s husband right from under her. Nope I rather live alone with a gang of cats pissing on my couch than to have an affair with a married man.
Ladies, I know there is a shortage of brothas out here, but settling for less is just not an option in my book. All the men I’ve described are scum bags. Just remember you’ve been warned. If you play with fire you’re sure to get burned.
Holla at me: Out of the 5 men I’ve described, which ones have you encountered?
Kya
Comment made on November 23, 2010 @ 3:50 pm
I dont agree about the ex-man. Yes we did break up & there are reasons. What if that is what you two needed to see what you two had in each other. We always compare our ex to our present and some times the present done measure up. Hell that makes you grateful for what you had and helps you understand people are not perfect. Also it could have been a maturity issue & now he has grown up!
sTy
Comment made on November 23, 2010 @ 8:35 pm
I also disagree with no.3 ‘the ex.’Although I have no ex’s that I would re-date, I understand that some relationships are able to work the second time around for various reasons. Some people need to grow up and be able to handle a mature relationship, others may need to get pass a demanding period in their lives or even date others in order to realize the great person they had before. I really think it depends on the circumstances behind the break down of the relationship in the first place.
sunshyne84
Comment made on November 24, 2010 @ 2:49 am
I know someone that’s 4 out of the 5. That’s not good right? lol Well he’s not married yet, but his facebook says engaged…
Ozell Gauldin
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