I may be in the minority on this, but I don’t characterize a person watching porn as cheating. I’ve heard so many women tell me, they don’t understand why their men are into porn and it is destroying their relationships. Really? I’m sorry I just don’t see the big deal with it. Am I just missing something, or I have a problem as well? Do I need P.L.A *Porn Lovers Anonymous*?I really don’t consider porn as cheating; matter of fact porn can help your relationship rather than destroy it.
I think women consider porn as cheating because they feel they should be the only person to arouse their men. HELLO, you’re dealing with a man; a strong wind can arouse his ass, so take the stick out of yours. I rather my man chill in the house and watch porn than go out to the strip club and have sweaty thunder claps dancing in the peripheral of his man wood . Women just don’t understand if he watches porn you can benefit. I really recommend women to watch it with their men. Not only does a man find a woman watching porn sexy, you can also learn a few new moves. Sit back and watch how your boo reacts to certain things, and then when you about to get pinned down you have new shit to do in the bedroom.
I do think some men take their obsession with porn a little overboard. One of my friends told me her ex was so obsessed with porn he would spend the rent money on his habit. That is some shit fo yo ass. That is taking it too far, when your home life is in jeopardy because you’re too into something that was suppose to bring you pleasure. I’m not sure if there is such a thing as Porn Lovers Anonymous, but home boy needed that quick fast and in a hurry.
VegasSeven
Comment made on June 18, 2009 @ 5:56 pm
Just one more example of how a couple has to bond sexually for the relationship to work out. I would not want to have to deal with that later in the relationship.
PRIMALDATA
Comment made on June 19, 2009 @ 6:48 am
I think part of the problem is some women are scared they can't measure up to the porn stars. They're just actresses, they playing a role.
And guess what guys feel the same way about romance novels, women want fantastic romantic forgetting that you can do whatever you want in a book but in real life there is a such thing as gravity. I can't stay 22 forever, I can't always be there right when ya want me to because well most likely we both got jobs, and we both have things we know needs to be done. This is the modern age that horse and carriage crap maybe a special occasian we can rent one but um it ain a daily thing.
Guys like porn because even if it's just while playing that role the women are into the sex and enjoying themselves instead of worrying what people think of them. It's supposed to be me and you against the world(if you trying to move to the next level anyway) if you can't decide that what we're doing together is more important that what somebody not laying in bed with you at night on a regular thinks of you it ain dude with the problem.
As for the man with the addiction that was spending his rent money, tell shawty introduce my man to ovguide.com it shows a list of tube sites where he can watch porn til his eyes bleed, and most of the shit is F R E E, rent money intact, she knows where he is and he can get it(and if she can take the stick out her ass) while he's watching she can practice a few things.
hrlickandsuck
Comment made on August 20, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
My lady knows i look at porn in fact i often say to her how come u dont look like that and she retorts how come u dont look like Denzel washington then we both laugh! She 's not threatened by it but also not interested in it as she finds it boring. If i kept the room door shut she'd be worried at what i was looking at.
Spend money on porn no chance too mean for that anyway plenty of free stuff online. Those women who are shocked and think its cheating need to wake up.
However i had a mistress who loved looking at porn and i used to send her videos and the like she was great especially when i was banging her as we both watched porn it was heaven. too many women have a hang up on it and no we dont think the porn star is better than you!
Ethan Hardimon
Comment made on April 25, 2010 @ 11:19 pm
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mizmurph
Comment made on December 14, 2010 @ 7:35 pm
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Christa Johnston
Comment made on December 23, 2010 @ 10:29 pm
SOME MANY FEMALES GET CAUGHT UP WITH THIER MAN WATCHING ANOTHER WOMAN. THEY LET THAT CONTROL THEM AND LOOK PAST THE BIGGER PICTURE! HELL I SAY JOIN EM…..I GOT A COLLECTION IF ANYBODY NEEDS TO BORROW SOME! LOL LUV THE POST!
Tiffany Arnold via Facebook
Comment made on February 20, 2012 @ 7:29 pm
Yes!!!!
Tiffany Arnold via Facebook
Comment made on February 20, 2012 @ 7:33 pm
It actually can enhance the sex life