Can someone break it down for me and explain why do some women settle for what they can’t have? It’s like they feel they can’t do any better so they just do all kinds of scallywag shit. I’m assuming it makes them feel better about themselves. I’m talking about the hoes who’s only goal in life is to f*ck with other women’s men. I’m not saying the guy doesn’t play a role in this wack of bullshit. In fact he plays the biggest role of all, but this bitch always wants to get ig’nant and try to come at you sideways. All I gotta is sideline hoe’s need to be stopped. Naw their asses need to be destroyed.
You gotta be a brazen ass chick to have the balls to come from where you come from and decide you wanna TAKE another chicks man. Now I know if something is truly yours no one can just take your shit, but they do have a hell of a role to play in this drama. I know this chick who only f*cks with married men. I mean if that’s what you like to do that’s cool, but she does the total disrespect and contacts the wife to let her know she’s f*cking their husbands. If you think that’s bad…one time she mailed the wife some photos of the husband lying in bed NEKKID while he slept. Now wouldn’t you just punch the piss out of that bitch?
Why does she find this type of behavior necessary? Why is it your job to tell this woman that YOU have officially wreaked her home? Putting this no good n*gga to the side, as a woman how can you do something like that to another? That is not only classless, but down right trifling. I find it sad that a woman can only resort to shit like that and still sits there expecting him to leave the wife and make her wifey. MOST OF THE TIME A MAN WON’T LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR A TRICK HE FUCKED WHILE MARRIED.
Then you have the bitches that wanna get buck on the main woman. Like she goes out of her way to f*ck with her. Saying and doing sly shit because she thinks she can. These sidelines hoes need to learn their places and stay the hell on the side. Does this steam from a lack of home training? The fact that there is a big ratio of women than men? Or is it simply a lot of triflin ass bitches in this world that just don’t give a damn about no one but themselves.
Holla at me: What do you think?
Thacomputa
Comment made on June 10, 2010 @ 10:59 am
I keep telling you, y’all out number us! There’s just not enough men to go around! Stop being selfish. Accept it. Share!
MS CONCIETA
Comment made on June 10, 2010 @ 3:01 pm
its for real though. i really dont know how these chics go and settle for less and tell ppl thats their man fully well knowing home boy gots a main thing. not me. if i fuk'd u thats what it is but as for calling u my man. eh eh. and right about now if u aint my man u gets nothing and thats that. im keeping my hi grade pussy to myself. ya dig.
vichick
Comment made on June 10, 2010 @ 3:02 pm
I should punch your ass in the throat. No the hell you didn't just say that. GRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
anonymous
Comment made on June 10, 2010 @ 10:47 pm
Well said…
Ms. "Sideliner"
Comment made on June 10, 2010 @ 11:15 pm
I just wanted to pose a question.What about the sideliners that didnt initially know that their "mate" had a "Main" Woman?Or what about the sideliners that are lied to initially in the beginning?And us sideliners do sometimes fall vicitm to the "game".Some of us are just hopeless romantics looking for love.Sometimes it may end up being in the wrong places, but that doesnt mean it started out that way. Sometimes we fall victim.(Scenario1)Boy meets girl. Girl grills boy, boy lies.Girl and boy become a hot and heavy item. Girl and boy express their love for each other.Then girl finds out boy has a "Main" Woman.Girls tries to end the relationship but its hard cause she is in love with boy.Now I agree some of us do know what we are doing.There are some of us that seek men in relationships because its easier to have the perks without the committment.Its like having dessert with your main course.We both don't want a committment as we are in committed relationships with other people ergo the relationship becomes primarily focused on what we want from each other.(usually sex)The relationship is an enhancer so to speak,like makeup enhances certain features.Or accessories enhance the overall look of an outfit.
vichick
Comment made on June 10, 2010 @ 7:24 pm
I'm not gonna front…I've mentioned this several times in various blogs. I've been a sideliner before. It's a different story when you don't know shit about the other woman. The issue that I had and I can't speak for anyone else. I was in love and I mean deeply in love. I wanted him to get rid of her, but if he lied to me about even having her what made me think he was going to be truthful about anything else.
Basically, as a sideliner you're setting yourself up for being hurt. I always say, if you know better you do better. If you find out about the other chick in some background way and he lied about it, chances are he's lying to her about the relationship he has with you. At the end of the day is all the drama, the heartache and the bullshit really worth it?