I been dating this guy officially 3 months, but we were unofficially for 6 months. I’m 22 and he is 19 we are very close and build a close relationship and friendship together. I have this ideal of how I want a relationship with my husband and our families to go, but I’m coming to reality that maybe every thing isn’t going to be perfect. He has met some of my family just as I have met some of his family. Meeting his mom has always been a hi and bye thing. So I guess I came over on the wrong day and as soon as I walked in her house I knew something wasn’t right with all of the beer bottles. I went up to his room and before I can get comfortable and take my jacket off she was up stairs in my face drunk telling me what she expects from me and talking about little arguments me and him has have. I notice that he tells her everything at this point I had a conversation about not having his mom know everything because she feels as tho she can put her two scents in when they are not needed. She was loud cursing and having her finger in my face. She went on for about 20 mins of how his father treated her and things he told her and that she likes me for a daughter in law but she doesn’t want me playing with her son heart and things. He was there and had to tell her couple of times can she back up out my face and leave the room. I didn’t say anything to her because I felt tho I was raised not to disrespect adults and I would lose him if I did. I really was upset with everything that happen he said sorry for his mom but I felt like that wasn’t enough. Friends said I should just avoid her but that’s his mom so how long can I do that? I thought about not being with him because of it cause it probably wont be the last time. I don’t know.
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