I never in my life understood how a woman would date a man that does not take care of his kids. It really boggles my mind because it actually shows his character and how much of an asshole he is, but some women just choose to ignore it. I refuse to date a man that does not take care of his own. Some women don’t care if he does or not, as long as he’s taking care of her all is right with the world. Why do women allow this kind of mess to go on? You can’t really do anything about him not taking care of his kids, but why would you stick it in with someone that obviously doesn’t handle his responsibilities? That leaves me to wonder… do women overlook his irresponsibilities just to say they have a man?
Sometimes anyone with baggage in my opinion can be a waste of time. I don’t mean to be like that, but what’s the benefit of getting involved in a baggage situation? True enough, he may be a nice guy or she may be a cool chick, but at the end of the day his/her drama shouldn’t have to be your situation. Shit does happen sometimes, but it isn’t fair to expect someone from the outside to just deal with it. If you followed the show “The Game” you should know these two characters in the pic; Derwin and Jenay. They were once in a relationship, but he ended it because he was still in love with his ex Melanie. While Derwin tried to get Mel back and was successful in doing so, Jenay found out she was pregnant. Melanie was now put in an awkward position; should she stay or should she go?