I might be stuck in the dark ages, but I always lived by the motto “I’m the girl”. Meaning I am the woman so I should not have to approach a guy. He must somehow sense that I want to talk to him and approach me even if there is a threat of rejection. Although that might sound sensible in my head most people think I am crazy when I say it out loud. I just didn’t feel the need to make a move, but there was an instance I had to suck it up and do what I had to do.

Back in the day I never approached a guy first. I would have a crush on you for 18 years, but if you never approached me you wouldn’t know it. I am shy!!! Yes contrary to popular belief I am shy like shit. I am not really all up on expressing my feelings and all that female shit. So, if I was digging on someone that’s about all I was doing. I thought this was the way to go because why the hell should I approach if I am the chick in this here scenario? So I went about my days wishing and praying that the guy I liked said something to me. It always worked…even though the majority of the time they approached me years later. I can honestly say almost every guy that I had a crush on…I mean a serious crush on has someone how approached me later on in life. So I just decided there was no need for me to step to someone because 5 years from now he would holla at me anyway.

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