How much should you have in common?

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It’s very important to have a lot in common with your significant other but also always have your own likes and dislikes so you never lose who you are as a person being wrapped up in someone else. Similarities are such a valid trait and in reality you should have more than a fair amount in common and this goes into personal goals, lifestyle and intimacy. It should be a bit more than 50% so it least you know there’s room to grow together. You don’t want to become a walking clone of your mate because that’s definitely no fun and no one likes a copy cat. You want to have different interest, hobbies and passions from your partner because that’s what keeps things interesting in a relationship.

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How can you be sure you’re great in bed?

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Just because you can get him to cum, doesn’t mean that you’re necessarily good in bed.

I remember watching an episode of Sex and the City, where Charlotte was distraught because the man she was sleeping with fell asleep while he was still in flagrante delicto. I also remember having a conversation with a friend of mine about her being scared to sleep with a guy she knew was well experienced because she feared that she wasn’t good enough in bed. I told her well if you are fearful of not being good, more than likely it’s because you aren’t or you lack experience.

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That B*ch Lied…Your D*ck is Wack *Classic*

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It seems that there are a substantial number of men out there that believe they got that Lexington Steele when in fact they got that Pee Wee Herman…

Honestly fellas I don’t even blame you I blame all these lying ass heffas for misleading you into believing that you had that work when in fact your ass needs to be laid off…and best believe she VERBALLY TOLD you it was “good” and “the best she ever had” and then turned around and clowned your dumb ass to her homegirls recanting every horrible wack detail down to your tightie whities, the weird musk behind your balls, and your lack of rhythm….smmfh

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Are You The Crazy Girl?

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It’s a fact men make women go crazy. (Women make men go crazy but that is another story.) Crazy. Not that he put it down so good he got me climbing the walls. I am talking about the dressed in a black lurking outside your house, calling your phone blocked,trying to hack your facebook account crazy.
There is that one person that has the power over us to make us go bonkers. Sure their sex game may be on point (better be on point) but it is something they say. Its how the smile at us. Wipe away our tears. Hold us when we are down. Cook for us and hold us up when it seems like the world is tearing us down.

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The Little Lies We Tell Ourselves

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It’s amazing how we “try” to keep things together even after we realize that don’t work. I (because I live and love fashion must speak from my fashion perspective) buy a pair of shoes that I love or lust at first sight then put them on and can’t walk in them for sh*t…but can’t bring myself to stop wearing…or god forbidden give them away and let someone else have them. It’s the same thing with a relationship.

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The Foot Fetish

*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. I want you to give a special hand to Tesha of TeshasDiary.com

I entered knowing exactly what I wanted. I searched for him, fearful that he might not be available to cater to my needs. I found him, smiling and inviting. We had a connection, an attraction.

He knew what I wanted, I had become his number one customer and his biggest fan. Fascinated by the tantalizing things he had stored in his arsenal.

He was known to have the magic touch. I went to where he would be, where he wanted me to wait for him. I awaited him, nervous about the things he’d be doing to me. I was excited about what the next hour or so had in store. He ran me a warm bath, seasoned with scented sea salts and soft bubbles to caress me.

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Bitch Ass Men In 2010

*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature readers that got thangs to say. I want you to give a special hand to NiKole.

Not sure when the roles changed but why have guys gotten so sensitive and passive. Don’t get me wrong I like a guy to care and be concerned but waiting by the phone for me to call or counting down the hours and minutes since my last call is borderline bitchassness. I need a man to check me and keep me in line cause I’m aggressive so he has to be a little more not a whole lot less.

I hate playing the guy role in a relationship because I will cheat. There is no way I won’t. I tried it twice and cheated four times. I love a man to be in to their feelings, but shit u don’t need to cry if you didn’t get to hear my voice before you went to bed. Sometimes I want to say “man up, you sure you have balls between your legs?”. It just frustrates me because I see why previous girls cheat because I’m pretty sure they thought they were dating a girl, and had to check their sexuality in cheating.

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Just Say No to Dating Sites

*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. I want you to give a special hand to Nukirk.

First off, let’s start off with a basic introduction. My name is Nukirk. I’m a music/tech/social studies blogger, not a relationship advisor. At least that’s what I’m known as. But I do have some common sense I would love to give you that combines my knowledge of the web with your wanting to attract a partner of your choosing using the web. I also know that in order to pull it off a feat like this, I must rely on the one thing VI loves about me… my quirky sense of humor.

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The Need for Greed

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Hi and I would like to start by thanking Candy Diaries for letting me guest blog I promise to give you your 5 minutes worth of read, I was told to base it around relationship or sex so I though why not both. Based on personal experience, I’m also throwing in some advice, a little of that never hurt anyone.

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That Four Letter Word….

*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say.This is a special DMGB because this is in response to a blog written over at 2 Ditzy Broads. I want you to give a special hand to The Mystery Man.

Love – Love is complicated enough between people who see each other every day. But what I don’t really understand is how someone can claim they love you and have never, EVER met you. Now maybe I haven’t gotten with the times as yet but that screams attachment issues to me. Or at the very least crazy as hell.

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