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- - Feb
  - 1
  - 2012
- Watching Someone You Love, LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships emotions, feelings, friendship, happiness, love, rejection at 9:30 am
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I must say one of the hardest emotions to control is love. No matter what you try to cover it up with, it always seeps out of your heart. As grownups we fall in and out of something we think is love, but realized it wasn’t what we thought it was when it’s over. The worst thing about love is that it can happen when you least expect it, with someone you least expected to fall for…a friend. Now you’ve secretly fallen deep without their knowledge. You suffer through the pain while they live their lives. You’re now watching someone you love, love someone else.

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- - Jan
  - 31
  - 2012
- Are You Too Emotionally Invested In A “Just Sex” Relationship?
  
  Written by V.I. in Sex dick, emotions, feelings, Relationships, Sex at 9:30 am
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Good dick can have a chick gone. No matter how much she tells herself it’s just for fun, every deep stroke he gives makes her think “what if.” Not all women can have sex without catching feelings. When a woman gives herself sexually, she ends up giving herself emotionally. Sex can be very emotional no matter how the relationship started out. The second you gave him the mingee you got dick hooked. Then you start acting crazy. Yes, you start treating the “just sex” relationship like something else…a RELATIONSHIP. You get jealous if you see him with someone else. If you call and he doesn’t answer the phone you get mad. If he comes over, hits it from the back real good your ass wants to cuddle and talk afterwards. Chile, you’re all the way never right when you create this relationship in your head. You have taken a situation that was suppose to be so simple and turned it into something else. You have become too emotionally invested in a just sex relationship. The question is, is it ok to be emotional if you’re giving your other parts?

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- - Jul
  - 14
  - 2011
- He Lied To Get It:A Woman’s Guide To Sifting Through The Bullsh*t
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships emotions, game, lies, Sex, vulernabilty at 9:30 am
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Men are some inventive ass people. Some men go to great lengths to woo and romance a woman, tell her everything she thinks she wants to hear JUST TO GET THE PANTY DRAWERS. It’s like they need to conquer all the cooch in the world, just to put another notch on their belt. By no means am I saying that all men ain’t shit, but a majority of you need someone to kick you in the nuts right quick. Ladies, I know we sometimes wear our hearts on our sleeves, but there comes a time when you have to see game for what it is. If you’re feeling the sexual attraction and want to allow him hit, by all means do you bew bew you’re a grown woman. If you’re trying to take things slow but he’s telling you “I love you” while trying to remove your panties chances are you’re in a “hit it and quit it” situation.

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- - Jun
  - 6
  - 2011
- Ask V.I.~He’s A Loser, But I Think I Like Him
  
  Written by V.I. in Ask V.I. children, dating, emotions, loser at 9:30 am
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Hey V.I.,

Okay, so I’ve been kicking it with this guy for like 2 yrs just sex, been on a date 1x…I complain 2 him all the time about taking me out…like damn Applebees is 2 for 20..lol. I’m not sure why I’m so stuck on him. I mean he doesn’t really have a good job and he doesn’t live on his own. He doesn’t have a futuristic mind…no goals…and I promise you I see more potential in him that he sees in himself. He has a child that’s in another state. I’m not sure how much he provides, but when I do ask about his kid he seems to be current on what’s going on.

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- - May
  - 18
  - 2011
- F*cking While Loving, and Loving F*cking *Explicit*
  
  Written by V.I. in Diary Of A Mad Guest Blogger emotions, feelings, Relationships, Sex, society at 9:30 am
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*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. Please give up for Owl of Owlasylum.

Alright, I want to write about f*cking. Can I do that? Can I write about f*cking without feeling like I’m some lost hedonistic socially irresponsible sexist pig? Can I do that? Sure, I enjoy making love just a much as my more reserved brethen do. In fact, I probably do the caring, caressing thing more often than I do the pull your hair, bite your neck, push my penis into your cervix through your mouth thing. BUT…every now and then…I need to release an aspect of my Self sexually.

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- - May
  - 6
  - 2011
- Ask V.I.~ How Can I Make Him My Man?
  
  Written by V.I. in Ask V.I. emotions, online dating, Relationships, virginity at 9:30 am
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Hi V.I.

I’ve been talking to this guy for about four months. He is in the army we met on an internet dating site. I NEVER did it before but was bored one day and decided to make an account just for fun. I never thought I would actually meet someone let alone feel for this person so much that I’m writing to get advice lol.

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- - Apr
  - 27
  - 2011
- Who Falls Quicker…Men or Women?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships affection, emotions, love, lust, rejection at 9:30 am
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So I was listening to the radio yesterday and the host brought up an interesting topic. Who falls quicker for the opposite sex…men or women? Now for years damn near everyone would say women catch feelings quicker than men, but as the host pointed out “It seems men are now fallen quicker for women”. I can say both men and women have their share of falls. The women fall the second a guy gives her good d*ck or pretends to be the man of her dreams. A man falls the second a woman doesn’t seem as interested as he think she should be. Women are now taking “relationships” for what they are, and men aren’t really handling it as they should.

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- - Apr
  - 25
  - 2011
- If You Love Someone, Can You Really Let Them Go?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships break-up, emotions, love, moving on, Relationships at 9:30 am
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The hardest part of love is knowing when to let go of it. No one wants to feel like a failure in love, but there are times when just loving someone isn’t enough. You have to make that difficult decision “should I stay or should I go”. There are times you may feel deep down that you have to move on, but doing it doesn’t come easy. You easily become torn with what the mind wants and the heart needs. When you finally decide to step out on faith and let it go, getting over that love is always difficult. Sometimes you never really get over it; you just learn to live day by day without it. If you loved someone and decide to let them go, are you really letting them go?

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- - Apr
  - 13
  - 2011
- How To Be The Other Woman
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships cheating, emotions, other woman, Relationships, Sex at 9:30 am
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I decided to do this post based off of the video I posted yesterday. The song basically discusses being the side chick in an obvious side dish relationship. Thinking that being the woman he “needs” will automatically make you the main woman in his life. Listening to the stories he tells you about leaving her and waiting to never see the day. So many women can relate to these scenarios because you’re the side dish in his relationship. You’re the one that thinks you will become wifey when he realizes what a “good woman” you are to him. You’re the one who gets upset when he goes home to his her. You’re the one that refers to her as “that bitch”. You’re the one who waits around for him to give you at least an hour out of his week and brag to your friends… “I gotta man”. You’re the one constantly griping about how he’s hurting you, when you knowingly entered into this situation. YOU’RE THE ONE WHO’S A DAMN FOOL.

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- - Feb
  - 16
  - 2011
- How Do Men Deal With A Cheating Woman?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships cheating, emotions, ex boyfriend, infidelity, lies, trust, woman cheating at 9:30 am
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When people hear that someone has cheated in a relationship they always assume it’s the guys’ fault. We all know that some men aren’t worth a damn, but there are a lot of women out here that don’t give a shit. Studies have actually shown that because women are more emotional creatures they have a tendency to cheat more than men. It doesn’t always start as a physical act. There are a lot of women that cheat emotionally and think as long as she’s not actually having sex it doesn’t count. No matter how you cheat it’s still cheating. Fellas, what do you do when you’ve been faithful and you find out your woman has cheated? Do you stay and try to make it work or do you kick her to the curb and deal with your broken heart?

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Watching Someone You Love, LOVE SOMEONE ELSE

Are You Too Emotionally Invested In A “Just Sex” Relationship?

He Lied To Get It:A Woman’s Guide To Sifting Through The Bullsh*t

Ask V.I.~He’s A Loser, But I Think I Like Him

Fcking While Loving, and Loving Fcking Explicit

Snapping Fingers Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. Please give up for Owl of Owlasylum.

Ask V.I.~ How Can I Make Him My Man?

Who Falls Quicker…Men or Women?

If You Love Someone, Can You Really Let Them Go?

How To Be The Other Woman

How Do Men Deal With A Cheating Woman?

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