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- - Nov
  - 8
  - 2011
- Can You Actually Make Someone Crazy?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships crazy, dating, deceit, hurt, love, Relationships at 9:30 am
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Have you ever known someone that just wasn’t right in the head? They get into a particular relationship and when things start going bad they automatically start to act different? It’s like they love so strong that their mind can’t keep up with their emotions. They start saying and doing some off the wall shit, and think that nothing is wrong with them but with everyone else. I always wondered if genetically people have the crazy demon in them already, or the minute they love too strong they start to lose it. Can love actually make someone crazy?

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- - Nov
  - 3
  - 2011
- Ask V.I.~How Do I Tell My Husband “You’re Not The Father”?
  
  Written by V.I. in Ask V.I. cheating, children, hurt, lies, marriage, pregnancy, separation at 9:30 am
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Hello V.I.,

I am truly stressing and I need some serious advice. I’ve been married about 5 years now and 3 years ago my husband and I started having marital issues. We started arguing way too much, so there was a point where we sorta separated. I went out one night with my friends and met this guy. We started exchanging texts and meeting for drinks. One night we slept together, which I instantly regretted. I felt so weird sleeping with someone that wasn’t my husband. I broke things off with the guy and had a long talk with my hubby and we decided to make things work.

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- - Oct
  - 18
  - 2011
- Do You Really Know How To Love?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships baggage, fear, feelings, hurt, love, Relationships at 9:30 am
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Do you really know how to love? I know Wayne made a song about it, but we don’t need a dude with 18 kids and 20 baby mommas telling us how to love. If you think about it, can you honestly say you have what it takes to really love someone other than yourself? Are you confident enough in your abilities to open up yourself to the possibility of love? Most women aren’t, hell neither are most men. It’s not that you don’t want to, you just can’t. Most women experience this sort of shocked hurt, that they just can’t seem to get over. It has shaken them to the core. They’re too guarded with their love and afraid to give that special part of them to anyone else. True, you can’t just give your love away all willy nilly and shit but when you can’t give the love at all I find that to be a problem.

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- - Oct
  - 13
  - 2011
- Ask V.I.~ My Teenage Love Affair Turned Into A Nightmare
  
  Written by V.I. in Uncategorized advice, baby, boys, hurt, love, men, pregnancy, teenager at 9:30 am
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Hi V.I.,

Your cuffing season post got me to thinking about an ex I had. Our relationship began Sept of last year. Although we’re not together and I’m not in love I still don’t have any closure about our breakup. *By the way I was 17 and he was 18* In the beginning it was all good.. he was everything I thought I wanted except that it was a possibility that he had gotten somebody for a previous relationship pregnant. Once the baby was born he would do a DNA. Ok.. no big deal. Skip to a month later.. she has the baby.. no drama.. YET. Time kept passing by and my family kept asking me what was taking so long to get the dna out if the way. On top of that I found out ol girl still had feelings. But I still trusted that he would make good decisions and handle his business.

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- - Aug
  - 3
  - 2011
- Pay Back Is a B*tch *Vintage*
  
  Written by V.I. in Cheat Week cheating, facebook, hurt, revenge, twitter at 9:30 am
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We’ve all have had some run in with a cheater, or we might have been the one that cheated. It is a hard ass thing to find out the person, who you “trusted” betrayed that trust in some form or the other. Emotions run high when we find out that bitch ass man/woman went behind our back and screwed someone else. I posed the question on twitter and facebook; “What is the most outrageous thing you ever did to get back at someone that cheated on you?” The responses where crazy funny to me.

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- - Apr
  - 20
  - 2011
- From Friends to Lovers
  
  Written by V.I. in Sex decisions, friend's, hurt, lovers, Sex, urban blog at 9:30 am
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It’s 10:00am and you’re finally waking up. Your head is pounding and you can’t remember shit from all the Patron shots you drank the night before. You look over because you realized that you’re not alone. You peek to see the unknown face of the person occupying the other side of the bed. When you finally see their face, your shit automatically turns into the WTF face. Laying next to you is your homeboy, your “brother”, your best friend and his ass is butt naked. You’re not sure if you did anything, but the torn XXL Magnum wrapper says otherwise. You’ve officially just crossed the line. You got your d*ck supply from someone you considered family. Can you admit to him that what you did was a mistake? Can your friendship ever regain that status it once held?

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- - Mar
  - 3
  - 2011
- Ask V.I.~I Love Me Some Him *Vintage*
  
  Written by V.I. in Ask V.I. cheating, hurt, love, relationship, respect, urban blog at 9:30 am
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Dear V.I.,

About 2 years ago i ended a very bad long term relationship…it ended very badly. I had a male friend who helped me through it all…This male friend was so good to me one thing lead to another with all the late night talking etc. We ended up sleeping together then i learned he had a woman he loved but was not in a relationship with in another state. I respected that and when she called i remained quiet besides i did not want to be in a relationship. We agreed to be fuck buddies. Things got heated up and the love word was exchanged later into the year.

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- - Nov
  - 16
  - 2010
- The String Along Chick *Vintage*
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships breakups, hurt, love, Relationships, string along at 9:30 am
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I always wondered why men can’t just say how they really feel. A woman will think everything is going great between them, but in his mind he has already dismissed himself from the “relationship”. When he mentally dismisses himself the problem I have is, he never tells her what’s going on. He just keeps her in the background, I guess as the In Case Shit broad. Meaning, in case shit doesn’t pan out with anyone else at least she is still there.

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- - Apr
  - 15
  - 2010
- ASK V.I. Special Edition~Parents Need to Do Better
  
  Written by V.I. in Ask V.I. ask vi, children, hurt, parenting skills at 10:00 am
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So I was sent an “ASK V.I.” email last night and I had to address this right away. I was blown away by what the hell the letter said and that made me start to get pissed off. I’m not a parent but I do know right from wrong , and some of you single mother’s out there need to get your shit together. I’m talking about the single mothers that put a nigga *yes I ain’t bleeped that shit out* before your children. What kind of parent are you that would allow some dumb ass lame to gank you, and then talk about you still love him? Let me run down the letter so ya’ll can get a bigger picture for ya’ll.

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- - Mar
  - 4
  - 2010
- When Is It Cheating?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships cheating, emotional cheating, hurt, relationship, talk, urban blog at 10:00 am
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Everyone has different ideas on cheating or what is considered cheating. One thing is for sure, it can’t be denied that signs play a major role when realizing that things just don’t seem the same between you and your partner. You may notice that your lover spends alot of time texting, or on the computer more often than they use to be. Automatically your mind will probably think that the other person might be cheating, but because you think it’s cheating does your lover see it that way?

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