Ladies, have you ever met a man that just seemed too good to be true? He says the right things, gives you attention then you find out he’s not worth a damn? You find out every thing that you had with this person was basically a lie. The man who you thought you knew and love wasn’t yours in the first place? Earlier this year I was talking to a friend of mine and she was ranting and raving about this new man she met. Talked about how compassionate he was and how he was so into her. So being all nosy and shit I asked her basic questions about the man like “Where does he live” “Does he have any kids” “What does he do for a living” so on and so forth. She seemed to stutter when she answered. That’s when I realized, she really didn’t know much about him. I found that suspect as hell, but I didn’t want to crush her dreams of happiness with this stranger.
Last week she called me crying her eyes out and told me that she found out the man she has been with and introduced to her momma was MARRIED. His whole life was a lie. He told her that he had his own apartment, but was really using one of his friend’s place whenever she wanted to come over. He always made excuses as to why he couldn’t see her all the time or call her. Saying that he spent a lot of time taking care of his sick momma. Do you know how she found out? His damn wife contacted her and told her that the man she knew as Robert was actually named James and they have been married for 7 years. I really didn’t know what to say cause girl was going crazy over the phone, but I knew something was up by the way she would talk about him over the past couple months. She said she never suspected it, but now that she looks back at it there were signs that she obviously ignored.
So many women are being fooled by married men out here and have no clue. Ladies, I read an article on AdultDatingSites.Net by Brianna Phillips “10 Signs To Look At To Know If The Man Hitting On You Is Married.“ You have to read this article. Brianna breaks down all the little inconsistencies when it comes to married men. I actually forwarded the link to my friend and she said everything on the list reminded her of Robert…I mean James or whoever the hell he is.
I really don’t understand why people get married if they’re clearly not ready. Anyway I hope the article helps any other woman out there that might question her man’s credibility. Check the list and if half of the things on that list applies to your man then chances are he was never yours to begin with.
Holla at me: Have you ever dated a married man? If so, is the list accurate?
