I know ya’ll wondering where the hell I’ve been.  I ain’t dead yet…I just had some shit to tend to in real-life. So I haven’t been writing like I normally do. You would see a new post from me everyday, then nothing. Well I guess you can say I temporarily lost my thirst for blogging. Writing is my passion, but there was no inspiration for me to write about anything. I guess I’m an emotional writer. If things aren’t aligned for me I can’t express shit. Over the past month I’ve transitioned in my personal life. That’s another reason I haven’t been blogging for the masses. I just needed to take a break and focus on other things. Sometimes when you’re passionate about something it can consume your life. Candy Diaries became my life where I didn’t feel I had anything else to write about.

Sometimes in life you get bored with your situations. I was bored with my job. Like it was the same shit over and over again. There was no room for growth or advancement in my current position. My supervisor called me one evening and told me about another position that he thought would be right for me. I didn’t want to apply for different reasons, but the major was because I was afraid of change. I was too comfortable in where I was, but knew that it was a dead end. Any who, I have a new job learning something completly different. I am excited about what I’m learning so I’m good. I haven’t been able to write because I’ve been tired as fluck. Going into the office for training everyday is tiring me out tho, but in a good way. I’m also dating someone so we’ll see how this goes. He’s a nice dude so maybe he can stay around. More updates to come.

So I’m back and trying to continue blogging. Continue to send in your “Ask V.I.” emails. If there are any topics you want me to tackle feel free to contact me. Let’s get back to the real in relationships.