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  - 9
  - 2011
- Candy Diaries Remembers: Hip-Hop Icon Heavy D…
  
  Written by V.I. in Reality Bites death, Heavy D, life, living single, music, overweight lover, R.I.P at 9:30 am
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Yesterday a hip- hop icon passed away. Heavy D aka the overweight lover passed away at the age of 44 yesterday in Los Angeles, CA. Heavy was not only a great artist, but he was also a great actor. Just last month Heavy D surprised the masses and performed at the BET Hip- Hop Awards. He also guest starred on a very moving episode of Law and Order SVU. I was so glad to see him back on the scene doing his thing. We all know that our time on earth is but for a time, so we have to live our lives to the fullest. Although, I never had the opportunity to meet Heavy D he seemed like one of the most genuine people to ever to work in this corrupt industry. When it’s your time your status in society doesn’t matter. Death doesn’t care if your 99 or 29, when it’s your time it’s your time. It’s the impact that you have had on others that will keep your legacy alive.

Rest in Power

Dwight Arrington Myers

Sunrise Sunset

May 24, 1967 – November 8, 2011

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TV Show Apperance *Living Single*

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- - Jun
  - 28
  - 2011
- All Men Are Not Husband Material
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships fate, hoes, husband, life, Relationships at 9:30 am
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“All Mean Are Not Husband Material” that phrase gave me life. That is the realist shit I ever wrote. All men aren’t “the one” and the sooner some women realize that, the better of they will be. I know we all believe in the fairytale of marriage, kids and a dog and some women do achieve. They key to it all is they realized that all the men they encountered won’t be the one that swept them off their feet. You can’t treat every man like hubby because every man is not that man. Some men are just are for the moment. You can’t give them all of you and get mad cause you got hurt. You see the signs that he ain’t shit, but you ignore it because you believe “This one might be it.” Ladies you gotta learn to differentiate the wanna be’s from the gonna be’s. Continue reading “All Men Are Not Husband Material” »

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- - May
  - 26
  - 2011
- What I Got From Oprah’s Final Goodbye
  
  Written by V.I. in Reality Bites god, life, Oprah, oprah final show, passion at 9:30 am
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“Everybody has a calling, and your real job in life is to get about your business and do it”~Oprah

As you all know yesterday was Oprah’s final episode of the Oprah Winfrey Show. It has been 25 years since Oprah graced household’s with her presence. A colored girl from Mississippi who everyone may have counted out because of the way she looked. Here stood a thick black woman with wide eyes and a convincing tongue. Oprah knew her business and with knowing her business was blessed not only with fortune and fame, but with a sense of being. Oprah’s last show recounted the years she devoted to her craft. A black woman in a pink dressed stood on a stage with a light pink chair as her back drop and talked about what her audience meant to her. Never sitting or acting sorrowful, she stood there and stared into the eyes of the audience. She stared into the camera as if she was talking to everyone individually. Lady O not only dropped knowledge, but wisdom that she has learned throughout the years.

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- - May
  - 12
  - 2011
- How Much Time Do You Really Have?
  
  Written by V.I. in My thoughts classmates, death, high school, life, time at 9:30 am
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Yesterday I got very shocking and sad news that one of my high school classmates passed away suddenly. There was no warning it just happened. Although we weren’t tight in high school I remembered her easy going personality. She always seemed to keep a smile on her face. Then I started thinking about the other classmates that were lost over the years. It really got me thinking about life and how instantly it can be gone. Growing up we never thought of the end. We lived with this notion that we were invincible to anything. Now that I am older I realize that no matter how many degrees you have, or how great your job seems you never know when it will be your last smile.

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- - Apr
  - 4
  - 2011
- It’s My Birthday…Worship Me!!!
  
  Written by V.I. in My thoughts god, happy birthday, life, love at 9:30 am
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So today is my birthday and as you may or may not know I”m *grumbles* years old today. Right now I’m probably traveling from my fabulous weekend trip to NYC. If I never at 16 what I know know, chile things would have been so much different back then. Being an adult is hard as work, but you reap the benefits. I’ve reflected on my life and I wouldn’t change a damn thing. Even a few ex’s here and there I would have still kept. Even though they may have worked my nerves or almost made me catch a case, I don’t regret a thing. I am winning right now in life. God has blessed me with wonderful and supportive people in my corner and all I can do is go UP. At 31 I still got it and I’m not old, I just know what the hell I want. *2 snaps in “V” formation lmao.

Love,

V.I.

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- - Jan
  - 4
  - 2011
- What’s Your Relationship Credit Score?
  
  Written by V.I. in Diary Of A Mad Guest Blogger dating, life, partners, relationship credit score, relationship questionnaire, soul mates at 9:30 am
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*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. Please give up for Darryl of Ashy 2 Classy.

One of the newest topics being tossed around in relationship round-tables, discussions, blogs, and articles is that you should know your mates financial situation before marrying them. Simply put, everyone should know about their partners past spending habits. Why? Because finances end the majority of marriages. Many financial advisers and relationships experts plead with people to know their mates CREDIT SCORE before deciding to jump the broom with them. Knowing this about your mate is fine and dandy (and yes, important) but maybe the bigger question we should be asking is “What is Your Relationship Credit Score?”

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- - Nov
  - 25
  - 2009
- What Are You Thankful For?
  
  Written by V.I. in My thoughts family, friend's, holidays, life, love, thanksgiving at 11:31 am
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What are you thankful for? I know we go through our everyday lives complaining about the things we lack, but never thankful for the things we have. As the holidays approach there are many people out there that can’t provide for their families. There will be no grand Thanksgiving dinners or the kids will have to go without presents this year. As the economy declines everyone is in a bind. With all this, we still need to be thankful for life, family, and love. No matter how bad things may be, you’re alive when you don’t have to be.

I want everyone to be safe out there this holiday season. No matter what you’re going through just know it’s only temporary. All our situations are temporary. I’m thankful for my family, friends, and the ability to love. So…What are you thankful for?

Have a safe holiday season from all of us here at Candy Diaries

Love V.I

xoxoxoxox

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Candy Diaries Remembers: Hip-Hop Icon Heavy D…

All Men Are Not Husband Material

What I Got From Oprah’s Final Goodbye

How Much Time Do You Really Have?

It’s My Birthday…Worship Me!!!

What’s Your Relationship Credit Score?

*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. Please give up for Darryl of Ashy 2 Classy.

What Are You Thankful For?

I want everyone to be safe out there this holiday season. No matter what you’re going through just know it’s only temporary. All our situations are temporary. I’m thankful for my family, friends, and the ability to love. So…What are you thankful for?

Have a safe holiday season from all of us here at Candy Diaries

Love V.I

xoxoxoxox

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Snapping Fingers Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature the bloggers that got thangs to say. Please give up for Darryl of Ashy 2 Classy.