Act of Desperation: Are You Too Generous Or Are You Trying To Buy His Love?

 

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There is nothing at all wrong with spoiling your man. If you want to buy him a nice shirt or a pair of expensive ass sneakers, do ya thang. The issue that I see many women having is that they feel like doing everything for a man financially will make him stay. There are women out here trying to buy love from a man who isn’t even selling it. He allows you to buy him and still would turn around and leave you for someone else. There is nothing wrong with generosity in a relationship, the issue is some women confuse generosity with pure desperation. Here’s a little secret for those of you that are unaware of the difference: Generosity goes both ways. Desperation is a singular action. Spending all your damn money won’t keep no damn man. 

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Brandy I Love You, But I Don’t Believe The Lies You Tell *Video*

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Brandy recently sat down with the ladies of the talk show “The Real”, and when asked about her dating status Brandy admitted that she is not currently dating and she’s just doing her. When the subject of marriage came up Brandy also stated that she no longer see it for walking down the aisle and she’s off the whole marriage idea. I DO NOT BELIEVE THE LIES SHE TELLS.

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Label-less Relationship: Why Isn’t He Calling You His Girlfriend?

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Are you into relationship labels? Do you feel like once you’ve been chose, you want the whole world to know it? For many women that is a common assertion. If you’re involved with someone and it’s just you and them, making it official is the next logical step right? What if he doesn’t believe in labeling what you two have going on? You’ve been in this stage for months and you’re still just considered friends. What can be the reason he’s not into labeling the relationship? 

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Downfalls of Losing Yourself In A Relationship

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The one thing that hinders us in life is losing ourselves. The person who you’ve grown to become is now unsure of who she is and her purpose. Now imagine losing yourself while in a relationship. Putting other’s opinions “suggestions” ahead of your own. Allowing their notions about your life, stop you from being who you’ve always been…YOU. It’s so easy to divert from who you are when starting out a new relationship. You take the constant ideas and suggestions of your partner, not realizing that you’re changing to suit their needs. Losing who you’ve always been to a person you no longer recognize. Losing yourself not only affect your “relationship” but your entire life.

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When The Lonely… Become Desperate

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Loneliness can be that bitch sometimes. When you have the world on your shoulders and it feels like everyday it’s weighing you down. When it comes to lack of relationships women tend to become bitter and pessimistic. Once a woman becomes lonely they either experience 1 of 2 things. They’re either bitter as hell and no man can come within 10 feet of them, or they become so desperate all you gotta do is shake your head because it hurts to even look at em. Either way, some allow their loneliness to turn in to desperation.

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Would You Stay If He Got Someone Else Pregnant?

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What would you do if the man you loved, got someone else pregnant? Would you stay or go? Recently a lot of celebrity scandals have come out involving conceiving love children with random chicks. They all say the same thing “My woman and I were on a break and I hit a bitch raw. Now I’m a pappy, don’t judge me”. Then you have these women  who have obviously been cheated on, but wanna save face so they stay in the relationship. Not even taking into account that these men that claim to love them f*cked some chick raw dog and now she’s about to conceive his offspring. Can love be that deep where you can overlook infidelity, blatant carelessness and drama? 

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