So we all know that Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz got married over the weekend. This whole shit has caused the side chick discussions to resurface. My homegirl showed me a blog where this woman was openly discussing her husband’s “side chick”. Yes, it is an unfortunate thing when your man DECIDES to cheat on you with someone else. Yes it is a hurtful feeling to know the man who vowed to remain FAITHFUL to you DECIDES to share his dick juice with another. I understand how anyone can feel dejected from such a terrible situation, but sometimes you have to put blame where blame is due…WITH HIS ASS!

A lot of women fail to realize that the “side chick” half the time is even unaware her ass is the side chick. The same way he lied to you,  it is possible that he can actually lie to someone else. Always blaming the other woman does nothing for your situation. The problem lies within your relationship. You need to question the n*gga you’re with because he’s the one that “supposedly” has loyalty towards you. A woman never forced a man to do a damn thing he didn’t want to. Some women need to focus their blame on the right person and realize he’s the one that needs handling. I’ve been a side chick both unwillingly and willingly, and I’ve also been the main woman so I know how it is on all sides. Although these instances happened years ago I can still remember how I felt with each.