Behind The Blog: Story Behind Original Blog “Would You Stay If He Got Someone Else Pregnant?”




Hey guys, so it’s another episode of my Behind The Blog series on Youtube. This week I’m talking about the story behind my blog ” Would You Stay If He Got Someone Else Pregnant?”. I’m telling the full story about finding out the boyfriend at the time had an entire black ass family behind my back. It was devastating at the time, but it was a huge learning experience. This is a lot of women’s plight, when dealing with a man that can’t seem to keep his thang to himself. 

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Ask VI- I’m Pregnant, But Not For My Husband

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Hello VI,

So obviously I’m pregnant. The issue is I’m not pregnant with my husband’s child. My husband and I have been married for 2 years and  separated for 6 months. During that time I have been dating around,  just enjoying myself. Two months ago I was set up on a blind date with this guy who works with my bestfriend. She thought that we would hit it off  and have a few dates here and there. Well, after a few dates we slept together. This was the first time having sex since my separation, so it was much-needed on my end. We used protection, but a few weeks later I started feeling sick and uncomfortable. I took a test and found out I was pregnant.

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Diary Of A Mad Guest Blogger: Motherhood vs Club Life


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Welcome To Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger: This is the section of our blog where bloggers or everyday readers of the site blog on topics they want to discuss. This weeks blog “Motherhood vs Club Life” was written by If Carrie Had Kids

It’s amazing how two things that seem to have nothing in common parallel so much. When I was 22 I mean literally seconds into being 22 I found out I was pregnant. It had been a crazy week, finals, holiday parties, work and preparing to head home for Christmas. I guess I was too busy to notice Aunt Flo didn’t make her monthly visit for the past few months. After discovering I was pregnant and coming to grips with how nothing would ever be the same again I began to tell friends and family. I remember how I was so nervous until I couldn’t breathe and started to hyperventilating while breaking the big news that would forever change the fiber of my being. Looking back it’s kind of hilarious the way that I reacted.

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His Dream, Your Nightmare!! *Vintage Blog*

Sometimes anyone with baggage in my opinion can be a waste of time. I don’t mean to be like that, but what’s the benefit of getting involved in a baggage situation? True enough, he may be a nice guy or she may be a cool chick, but at the end of the day his/her drama shouldn’t have to be your situation. Shit does happen sometimes, but it isn’t fair to expect someone from the outside to just deal with it. If you followed the show “The Game” you should know these two characters in the pic; Derwin and Jenay. They were once in a relationship, but he ended it because he was still in love with his ex Melanie. While Derwin tried to get Mel back and was successful in doing so, Jenay found out she was pregnant. Melanie was now put in an awkward position; should she stay or should she go?

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