How important is sex to a relationship?
While on twitter, I jokingly asked, “Do I really want to wobbly wobbly drop drop it like it’s hot?” I was in the moment referring to dancing, however, I received the following response from a male follower:
No one, absolutely no one wants to be that rebound person. The term rebound is typically referred to one person was rejected by another, so they use the next person to bounce back. This is usually the first available person that comes their way. That person is just someone they “use” to get over their last relationship. I know “use” is a harsh word, but hey that’s what it is. A man/woman never thinks their the rebound, because they think their the best thing to come along in your life. In your mind you already know that nothing serious can come from this relationship, and that person is just there so you can fill that void you’re use to.
A lot of people fail to realize that a hoe no matter how hoe-ish he/she might be, doesn’t go very far for too long. All hoes expire at some point. Yea they’re hot for a minute, but once the guy/girl realizes that there is something out there better you will be a distant memory. There are a lot of chicks out here that think f*cking every guy for recognition, money or a damn purse is needed. They choose to live their life that way, but fail to realize there is a time that there services won’t be needed. They will be tossed to the side and left out in the cold with a busted and bruised coochie and a bag that is so last year.
Have you ever had the kind of sex that just made you cry? *screeching sound* Hold up, I didn’t mean that in a good way. I mean the kind of sex that is sooooooooooo bad that you can’t understand how in the world another human being could perform such a atrocious act. It is so common for people to break down when the sex is that straight crap. It’s even harder when the person has everything else going for them, but can’t stand up in the bedroom. What would you do? Let it go and pray things get better or do you call it quits and move onto the next one?
Attention VI
Have u ever felt the need to go f*ck a stranger cause your so extremely horny and feel like u can’t control yourself or have someone to do if for u???(out of breath right now!!!) I have this problem right now… It’s not that I can’t get a release from anyone, but the person who suppose to do it for me ain’t doing his job. I am not suppose to be looking at other alternatives when I have a man… He suppose to be made available anytime for these sessions. Have I told him how I feel about the situation???yes and no… I told him i he don’t want other people eating off of his “plate of food” he better get his act together…Because men suppose to like these type of things.. Or am I a sex fiend??? I would consider myself a sex fiend only cause in my past relationships, almost all of them was because of the great sex or the best oral…All I do is think about sex… I dream of it, as well as smell it all the time… I think about doing different stuff all the time… I want to be excellent at it… I want to learn new stuff…. It’s no fun learning them by myself, but I really love this individual and see him as not only my husband, but also as a friend and my baby daddy… Is there anything I can do without feeling the need to cheat??
Fiendin for it
Hi V.I.,
What’s a girl to do?. I’ll be 26 years old next month and I have issues. Now I know there is no perfect man out there for me. I’m not the perfect woman either. At 25 years old I’m starting to feel like I want something everlasting and real. I’ve been in 5 relationships all spread out from the age of 16 till now 25.
The first relationship began when I was 16 years old. He was my boo and I was in love. Well at least at the moment I thought I was. He treated me like a queen buying me everything I wanted and needed. Showing me off at all the clubs I realized after 2 years & some weight gain I was just a trophy. Although we we’re living together he had already packed his things and left but we were still together. When cheating and lying became involved I left the relationship.
Hi V.I.,
Since this is where my wife seems to air all of our problems out, I thought I might get involved. Recently, my wife and I have been have been growing distant in our relationship. In all actuality, I have found someone else that makes me happy. She is an island girl. I love to hear the way she talks, I love her conversation, I love her smile, and I love the way she does those ‘Jamaican’dances. On the other hand, the sound of my wife’s voice has become painstakingly irritable. My boy said that I should leave her but I asked him if he didn’t see the Benz parked outside or in fact the layout of my condo; a divorce won’t be cheap.
Everyone has different ideas on cheating or what is considered cheating. One thing is for sure, it can’t be denied that signs play a major role when realizing that things just don’t seem the same between you and your partner. You may notice that your lover spends alot of time texting, or on the computer more often than they use to be. Automatically your mind will probably think that the other person might be cheating, but because you think it’s cheating does your lover see it that way?
Dear V.I.,
I decided to come to you because I don’t know who else to talk to. About a year ago I met this guy and we started dating. Every thing was going great for the first 4 months then he started acting differently. I suspected he was cheating but I wasn’t sure. One day while we were going out to eat I found a condom under the passenger seat. He said that his brother might have accidentally dropped it while he was giving him a lift. I was so naive, I didn’t really press the issue any furthur.
