So we started off “Black Love” week with “How to love a black man” , now we will teach the fellas a thing or two about us. Unlike men, women can be very complicated creatures. The majority of the time we think we need everything, but in actuality we . There are a lot of chicks out there that think everything should automatically be handed to them. A woman knows her self worth regardless of her relationship status, but can appreciate the love and affection given by the opposite sex. The man that has to pleasure of having a real woman in his life must be aware of how to treat her.
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Love no matter what the color is never easy. Learning the in’s and outs of the person you’re with can sometimes create a distorted view of men in general. This is generally said about black men. Black men like any other man on this planet are not easily understood. Although most men are from Mars and some from the slums of Jupiter *that was a bad joke*, there is a formula to loving each and every one of them. Many women can never understand the process it takes to love a real black man. Some women think nagging, drama and good pussy is the way to keep a black man at bay. A real woman knows how to love a real man.
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Candy Diaries has decided to devote this week to “Black Love” Week. This is the week where we tackle the the issues dealing with romance in the black community. We will disclose the myths and hopefully energize the hearts. Some people think black love is dead, but we’ve seen many successful couples who’ve defied the odds and gotten their love on track. If you believe in the power of Black Love, then I hope you chime in this week. If you’ve totally given up and believe that there is no longer such a thing as love period…please chime in.
Enjoy!!!!
Hi V.I.
I live on St. Thomas, VI and I am currently in a relationship with a “band man” he sings in a band, so you probably know how that goes. Well there is this one female that he use to “mess” with before we got involved and this bitch just would not give up and accept the fact that he is in a relationship. This young lady added me on facebook and me being the person that I am I accepted the request, so this weekend was St. John festival so my boyfriend and I went over there and it’s like she followed us the entire night. every time I walked away from him she would find her way over to him. I didn’t pay it any attention because he tells me just about everything so I know her intentions. Yesterday this girl went on fb and changed her status saying ” Everytime you turn ur back honey………….. ITS ON!!!!!!!!!!! pAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAPPINESS 
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Ok, so we’ve all heard and seen the pics of The Dream and his assistant frolicking on the beach all out in the open. It seems like everyone has an issue, but what I want to know is…why do you people even care? For those of you unfamiliar with The Dream, he is a writer/producer/singer/executive married to Christina Milian. If I gotta explain who she is, this gonna be a long ass blog. Basically they are two C list celebs that decided to fall in “like” and get married and hmmm now they are separated after 1 year of marriage. Everyone seems to be pissed at this dude because he lied…lied about what? Not everyone needed to know he was having issues in his faux marriage. Personally I think they got married cause her ass got knocked up, but again why should I even care?
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I really need your advice on my situation..I was recently reunited with my ex whom I haven’t seen or heard from in 7yrs. We were young when we were together and we did a lot of grown woman and man things that produced a child that was miscarried I figure he left me because I was pregnant, but that was not the case. He got locked up and had been trying to find me all theses years. Now that we have reunited its like we are back to where we were, except the fact that he had girlfriends or chicks that he engaged in acts with within the time we did get back together. He claims his love for me all the time but im not sure if he’s in love with me. Its only been a year since he been out and I’ve been there from the beginning til this day holding him down, but he’s admitted to stepping out on me and now im not trusting him.
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Transitioning from one relationship to another can be very difficult for some. No matter when the last relationship ended, there are always feelings left that you might not shake instantly. Nonetheless, your trying to move on and for the most part it seems to be working. You finally meet someone that has the same interest, goals, and it doesn’t hurt that they’re fine as hell. So why is it that sometimes you can’t seem to reveal to your ex that you’re seeing someone new?
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So last night while doing my relationship show over on Da Flava Radio, one of the topics that came up dealt with acceptance. The question was asked “If you found out your man fathered a child outside of your relationship, what would you do”? Now I’m sure you guys know I’ve been through this before, so my answer came out like a bolt of lightening. I informed everyone I actually experienced that and left the relationship. Well, one of the listeners in the chat room wrote “There was no way I could have really loved him if I just ended the relationship”. That got me to thinking; why do some women feel like they HAVE to tolerate whatever a man decides to put them through? Continue Reading…
*Snapping Fingers* Welcome to the Diary of A Mad Guest Blogger. This is a segment where we feature readers/bloggers that got thangs to say. I want you to give a special hand to Beyonca Stone.
It’s a fact men make women go crazy. (Women make men go crazy but that is another story.) Crazy. Not that he put it down so good he got me climbing the walls. I am talking about the dressed in a black lurking outside your house, calling your phone blocked,trying to hack your facebook account crazy.
There is that one person that has the power over us to make us go bonkers. Sure their sex game may be on point (better be on point) but it is something they say. Its how the smile at us. Wipe away our tears. Hold us when we are down. Cook for us and hold us up when it seems like the world is tearing us down.
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Have you ever been with someone that just did not give a damn when it came to sex? They just wanted it no matter what and would bug the shit out of you to get it? This is the act of selfishness. You could be dying with one lung hanging out and their ass gonna say “Before the paramedics get here let’s do it right quick”. What kind of bionic shit is that? Why do people feel like sex would make everything better? Yea it feels good from time to time, but it does not heal all wounds.
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