Instructions: Where ever you are I want you to shout..”I’ve slept with ___ number of men/women and I don’t care who knows it”. Go on; be proud of that two digit number. LOL. I’m just jiving ya’ll, but I have found that this is the most lied about convo at the start of a relationship.When you hear the question”How many people have you had sex with”? a boldface lie just comes out of nowhere. We lie for different reasons. Women lie because they don’t want to be thought of as a hoe. Men lie because they want to put up a front that they’re not the playa type so they can reel the chick in. Either way the real digits aren’t coming out. Should we just embrace our numbers and shout it from the roof tops, or should we continue to embellish the truth so we look holy in their eyes?
In my heart of hearts I truly think this relationship was meant to be a secret, but her ass got knocked up so the secret got out. Sometimes there are some people that you wouldn’t mind kicking it with behind close doors, but when that door is open you act like “Who me, know him”? “Naw I don’t know that dude”. You might want to keep the “relationship” under wraps for many reason, but the most common reason folks do this; the other person is soooooo not their type. When you say someone is not your type your basically saying their too unattractive to be with you. Let’s keep it real, if they were all that and a bag of Cool Ranch Doritos, your ass would be happy to flaunt them to damn near anyone you see.