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- - Feb
  - 14
  - 2012
- How Not To Slit Your Wrist On Valentine’s Day
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships depressed, Relationships, Sex, single, Valentine's Day at 9:30 am
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Happy Valentine’s Day to all the people who got someone in their lives. Ya’ll ain’t the popular folks today. You got chicks walking around the office hating that bitch cause she got flowers from her boo. Yea you ain’t bout shit today hun. This goes out to all my ladies that say “F*ck You Valentine’s Day” mainly cause ya’ll ain’t got nobody. No cards, no calls, no dinners and no dicks. Yea even though this is just one day, it can be the most miserable day to be a single person. It’s like couples love to rub that shit in your faces. Like “OMG look what Kevin bought me. What did….oh my bad girl. You ok? I know next year you will have a man for Valentine’s Day.” Bitch hush the hell up. Don’t let that heffa bring you down just cause you ain’t got someone to love. Yea she bragging about what that dude gave her and his ass probably bought 2 of the same things to give to his other bitches. Yo that shit happened to me back in the day, but I digress. Ladies if your single and not loving it today, here are some things you can do for Valentine’s Day so you don’t slit your wrists.

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- - Sep
  - 23
  - 2011
- Cuffing Season is Here…Are You Ready?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships cuffin season, single, warmth, winter at 3:01 pm
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Today is the first day of fall and it’s also the first day of cuffin season. For those of you unfamiliar with such a term cuffin season refers to people hooking up usually when the weather starts to change. Usually when the it starts getting cold outside you see more couples than single people. The clubs are a little less crunk because everyone who has paired off are in bed all up under one another. This is also the season where the thicker chicks stand out. I’ve heard a lot of men say they go after chicks with more meat on their bones because it’s extra warmth at night. So I guess us skinny chicks got the summer and the thick em’s got the winter. It’s all good tho.

So, I guess it’s time to find me a cuff buddy. I can’t just get with anything tho. I need someone that I would enjoy the winter with. Probably someone I wouldn’t mind having around when Spring rolls around. I wonder what are the criterias for a cuff buddy? Hmmmm does anyone anyone know?

Holla at me: Do you have a cuff buddy? What qualities do you look for in a cuff buddy

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- - Aug
  - 17
  - 2011
- Are You Single By Choice or by Chance?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships dating, Relationships, single, time at 9:30 am
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“Damn girl so why are YOU single?” Do you know how many times I hear that question? It’s like a man just can’t believe that an attractive woman *flips hair* can be single. Is it that or is it that some people feel that if you’re single and attractive something must be wrong with you? Maybe it’s the fact when people say they’re single, they’re really not as single as they appear to be. They must have a friend on the side or something. No one is single by choice right? There a lot of women out here that start out single by choice and end up single by chance. We refuse to settle when we know we deserve more. So now I’m wondering does our refusal not to settle leaving us undateable?

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- - Jul
  - 21
  - 2011
- How To Be Single Without Killing Yourself
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships companionship, dating, Sex, single, unhappy at 9:30 am
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I’m sorry but being single sucks chicken nuts. If you’re single *slow dramatic clap* bravo for you, but ya’ll can keep this single mess. Don’t get me wrong; you don’t have to be desperate to want someone in your life, hell you’re human. In my case it gets to me after a while. Forget about the drama of it all, sometimes you just want someone in your space. Hell it’s worse when you’re not even giving up the snatch. I’ve talked to some of my single friends and it seems everybody’s in hell. I think being single for too long is like 4 steps away from choking out your own shit.

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- - May
  - 5
  - 2011
- I Bought You That Drink…Bitch You’re Mine
  
  Written by V.I. in Date Week couple, dating, exclusive relationships, single at 9:30 am
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So last night while on twitter I saw this tweet: “Tionna Smalls telling females to keep at least 3 dudes at a time while dating is the same reason why they’ll remain single”. Now since it is Date Week on the site I thought this would be a great topic to discuss. I got into a debate with the person who tweeted that *which happens to be a man*, because he feels when you’re dating someone you’re in a relationship. I totally disagreed because I feel to date allows you to have options. A person can date more than one person, because until you’re in an exclusive relationship with them you’re still single. Many people will view this topic differently, but just because we’ve been going out are we automatically a “couple”?

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- - Mar
  - 17
  - 2011
- Are Good Women Played Out?
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships companionship, god, Good woman, love, men, single at 9:30 am
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“You’re a good woman. You’re strong, supportive and treat a man right”…but why are so many good women still single? Ladies, time and time again we’ve heard this line. You’re told you have all the great qualities any man would want, but no matter what time of day it is you’re always alone. No relationship lasts for the long haul. When it’s over you’re still nursing your wounds while they hop on the next bitch smoking. Is it that good women are too good or is it that men just don’t realize what they had until they end up with someone worse? Why do men praise your qualities, but still go after the trick bitches that ain’t got shit but a GED and 5 kids?

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- - Mar
  - 7
  - 2011
- The Dating Plight of the Single Black Woman *Classic*
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships attraction, black women, dating, Relationships, single at 9:30 am
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Yesterday we had the privilege to get inside the mind of a single black man on the issues of dating and the opposite sex. While insightful, I wanted to give men an idea of what women think when it comes to this subject as well. I GOT THE FEMALES ON DECK! I wanted to show that even though, we might be looking for the same things in the long run, and we have a different way of getting that across. I asked the same questions I asked to our single brotha Manny to a single sista CathrynMarie.

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- - Feb
  - 28
  - 2011
- Facebook Won’t Let You Love Yourself…
  
  Written by V.I. in Relationships dating yourself, facebook, flaws, relationship status, single at 9:30 am
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So you’re single and at times that shit can suck to all hell. On one hand you would like to get involved with someone, but you know deep down you’re not ready to get into a relationship. It’s like you’re now in limbo. Although, you feel like you’re ready to just be all into someone you know getting into that right now might not be what you want. Then you come up with a brilliant idea…BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF. It sounds crazy, but hell why the hell not?

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- - Jan
  - 10
  - 2011
- Are Single People Evil?
  
  Written by V.I. in Uncategorized cheating, evil, friendship, married, relationship, single, trust at 9:30 am
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Have you ever noticed when a couple gets married, they slowly drift away from their single friends? It’s like the single guy/girl is now the enemy. They hold some magical power that turns your spouse into a cheating idiot. I am assuming that is the logic of a married person. Or is it if you still have a single friend that hangs around you’re afraid that they try to get next to your spouse? When the hell did being single make you the enemy? You can no longer see your homegirl on a regular basis because her husband thinks you might be a bad influence on her, when she was the damn hoe in the group. So why is there this stigma on us singles? Is it because we live a life that the married wish they still had? Is it the fact that they think we’re so thirsty that if given the opportunity that we would push up on their spouses? Or is it the fact that they feel so much pity for us because even though we basically get to do whatever we like, we’re alone and will probably die that way?

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- - Apr
  - 9
  - 2010
- Ask V.I.~ Married Yet Still Single
  
  Written by V.I. in Ask V.I. ask vi, cheating, married, relationship, single at 10:02 am
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Hi V.I.,

Since this is where my wife seems to air all of our problems out, I thought I might get involved. Recently, my wife and I have been have been growing distant in our relationship. In all actuality, I have found someone else that makes me happy. She is an island girl. I love to hear the way she talks, I love her conversation, I love her smile, and I love the way she does those ‘Jamaican’dances. On the other hand, the sound of my wife’s voice has become painstakingly irritable. My boy said that I should leave her but I asked him if he didn’t see the Benz parked outside or in fact the layout of my condo; a divorce won’t be cheap.

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