Hi V.I.:
I want to have a threesome with one of my girl’s friends. I have brought up the subject in a playful manner and tried to gauge her response. Can the readers of Candy Diaries please tell me what approach I should use to ask my girl to have a threesome with one of her friends? Or better yet, if I were your man what would it take for me to convince you to have a threesome with your friend. I really think this will broaden our horizons and enhance the sex in our relationship. Now I know the majority of you will be ,…’uggh I wish you would’…but lets be real, there is a freak in you so help me out.
Thanks
Horny As Hell
Dear H.A.H,
*In my Martin voice* Um… somebody done told you wrong. Let’s pretend this is real life right now. Do you think your girl is gonna consent to you having sex with her homegirl? Damn if it’s a threesome, in my opinion the minute you tell your girl you wanna have a threesome with her and her friend the first thing she might think is that you been wanting to f*ck ol girl all this time and using the threesome to do it. Hey, I just might be the only one thinking that. Boo, if you wanna do a threesome more power to you, but you should know the type of woman you’re with also. Most chicks in committed relationships ain’t trying to have her man and her friend getting all natural with each other regardless if she’s in the room or not.
If you were in a jump off situation and you wanted to invite her friend along for the ride…cool, but do you think things will be the same after you engage with sex between friends? Naw brah…can you say ackward as hell? I say keep your mouth shut about the friend. If she’s down with the threesome thing hire a clean looking escort or something. Bringing a friend into the mix will not only cause problems in the long run but might also f*ck up their friendship. Hell you might enjoy f*cking the friend more than your girl and then the next thing you know ya’ll having your own secret relationship going on. It’s not worth the headache. The safest solutions is to get an escort dude…pay her, f*ck her then tell her get the f*ck on!!!
I’ve really hoped I’ve helped you in some way. I am not an expert, I just give my opinions as I see fit. The decision is ultimately yours to make, so I hope you make one that is in your best interest. Keep me posted!
