So we all know that Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz got married over the weekend. This whole shit has caused the side chick discussions to resurface. My homegirl showed me a blog where this woman was openly discussing her husband’s “side chick”. Yes, it is an unfortunate thing when your man DECIDES to cheat on you with someone else. Yes it is a hurtful feeling to know the man who vowed to remain FAITHFUL to you DECIDES to share his dick juice with another. I understand how anyone can feel dejected from such a terrible situation, but sometimes you have to put blame where blame is due…WITH HIS ASS!
A lot of women fail to realize that the “side chick” half the time is even unaware her ass is the side chick. The same way he lied to you, Â it is possible that he can actually lie to someone else. Always blaming the other woman does nothing for your situation. The problem lies within your relationship. You need to question the n*gga you’re with because he’s the one that “supposedly” has loyalty towards you. A woman never forced a man to do a damn thing he didn’t want to. Some women need to focus their blame on the right person and realize he’s the one that needs handling. I’ve been a side chick both unwillingly and willingly, and I’ve also been the main woman so I know how it is on all sides. Although these instances happened years ago I can still remember how I felt with each.
sheartless
Comment made on August 5, 2010 @ 11:47 am
i dont understand y no one didnt write on this post ..this is one of the best post that this site as had …i dont kow what it is but i never noticed how much people cheat like its nothing ..maybe this is to close to home cause i have been in all 3 positions ..both women and the male…i dont know nvm
CP
Comment made on August 25, 2010 @ 5:31 pm
I definitely agree to put blame where blame is due–on the deceiver, however many there may be. I have also found myself in situations with married men, not even knowing they were married. I luckily found out before it was too late to fix, but at this point it is just bullshit that I have to screen my potential dates *multiple times* to find out if they are actually single. I think it all just comes down to ‘treat others as you want to be treated’.