Ladies, we all HATE men with a duffle bag filled with baggage. You know the type; a troth of kids, crazy baby momma, and seems to have a bad habit of keeping his dick in his pants. Regardless of the issues, we deal with their asses anyway. I guess we somehow hope that by being with us it would be a catalyst for some sort of positive change in his life. FUCK THAT!!!! I learned a long time ago that no one can make someone change; they would have to be the ones that want to change. So you realize that his ass ain’t worth the dog shit you stepped in at the park, and you end the relationship.
Sometimes you just can’t say you’re ending the relationship, you actually have to do it. You have to wash that man out your hair. Meaning you have to get to the point where you’re no longer bothered with his ass anymore. No phone calls, no texting, no closure meetings, no one last dick ride, nothing. You just have to move on. One thing I do at the END of a relationship is I delete any traces of him. If you go through my phone it’s like his ass never existed. This way there will be no drunk texting or emotional phone calls at 3am, like I’m a damn fool. Lol. I know it can be difficult, but life is difficult. Why put up with shit that you obviously don’t need in your life? There are some people out there that you’re just too good for. If you’ve given a man your love and time and he has done nothing to make the relationship work, get rid of his ass.No one deserves to steal your joy. It’s yours to have.
No one man or woman should make you feel less than you are. Like Katt Williams said, “Self-esteem is esteem of your motherfucking self” no one should dictate how you should feel about you. Some people act like if they’re not with a particular person, it’s the end of the world. There are too many men and women walking around this green earth for you to fret over someone that doesn’t know their ass from their elbow.
Ultimately, it’s your decision to make. You have to decide when enough is enough. I’m just talking by my own personal experience with bitch ass, confused motherfu…..I mean men.
