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I have been asked many times, “Do you believe in soul mates”? My answer is always the same, “Yes I do believe soul mates exists”, do I think soul mates always end up with the one made for them? NO. In this world you have to believe that there is one perfect person out there just for you. Not perfect in the sense of no flaws, because I am here to tell you there is absolutely no such thing as a flawless person. I am talking about the perfect person (imperfections and all) is out there for the person you are.
I am a single, Caribbean-American woman living in Atlanta. Daily, I come across a lot of people claiming to be all that and a bag of Doritos. Men are like sales reps; they try to sell their pitch when you first meet them, praising all the good and overshadowing the bad characteristics. In this day and age it is so hard to meet someone that is about something. Women have to look for what I call the “B” signs, bisexuality, bad credit, and the bms (baby momma syndrome). Due to all of these downsides so many people find it hard to believe that there is such a thing as a soul mate.
As I stated earlier, even though I think everyone has a soul mate, not everyone ends up with that person. Both people have to be ready at the same time to receive each other. Many people end up in relationships that suit them at the time, knowing that it isn’t the right relationship for them. Your soul mate is out there, but because you’re involved in something else you will never receive. I also believe that even though you may never receive your soul mate, you will cross paths with that person sometime in life. As of right now I am not sure if I have ever crossed paths with my soul mate. I guess if it happens I will know. I still keep the faith.
Holla at me: Do you believe in the power of one? Do you think you have met your soul mate?
Earringsbytraci
Comment made on August 4, 2011 @ 12:09 pm
I do believe in soulmates. Unfortunately, as stated above not all will find and experience this. I met my soulmate in college. We’ve made our own rules on how our relationship has and will continue to develop. It’s a great feeling when you’re connected to someone beyond what’s physical and material.
Mizzmurph
Comment made on September 7, 2011 @ 11:23 pm
Yes yes yes yes soulmates do exsist! I think I found mine but he is already attached! Smdh