The little things defiantly can go a long way. I think along the way men have gotten so comfortable in not working to please their woman, that they don’t realize that she’s unhappy . Don‘t get me wrong, I think women have a lot to do with this also. We’ve become too flexible in our qualifications of a partner, and when they’re not showing us the attention we deserve; we have a problem. Fellas, there is nothing wrong with expressing how you feel to your woman. Sure you may look uncool to your boys, but you’re in a relationship with HER not them. Treat her to keep her.
Now when I said treat her to keep her, some people’s minds automatically went to material things. You can show appreciation and love for her without buying her a LX bag. Just the simple things like displaying public affection or complementing her on her appearance makes her feel special. For me, I find it so sexy when a man just holds onto my face tenderly, looks into my eyes and says “Baby, why do I love you so much?” It’s like his love for me is puzzling, but it feels too good to let go. See, simple things! Doing something together can also show her that you’re interested in spending that time. Cook a dinner together or take the kids off her hands for a few hours. There is nothing more peaceful to a woman than having quiet time to herself. This way, things run more smoothly in the household and you might not have to wish on a fallen star to get your dick sucked.
I’m not saying that you have to do all these things to get something from her, but it defiantly helps the relationship stay on a pleasant course. A happy and content woman is a peaceful woman. All I’m saying is, do the things you did to get her in the first place. Many people; both men and women abandon what they did in the beginning when they get to comfortable in the relationship. That’s when things get boring and predictable and trust me, someone might end up straying. Ladies, men also like to feel appreciated and wanted. If you know in the beginning you were that freak in the bedroom that did handstands and shit, you can’t change up after you get him and just lay there like Mista is about to climb on top of you and do his bidness. Where they do that at? Keep him guessing, learn new things hell make him a sandwich afterwards. Just show him that you want to make him happy, because a man that’s happy makes his woman happy.
Holla at me: What are some things that your partner did/does that makes you happy? Are you still receiving that attention?
