Some people just can’t realize when the end of their relationship is looming in the air. They ignore the signs; make excuses for the other person’s actions, hell they even stay away from any serious conversation with their partner. Stop running, because the inevitable is gonna happen. Just be GROWN enough to cut your loses and move the hell on.
No one wants to be on the loosing end of a relationship. You try your best to work on things, but it’s basically a wrap with the other person. I was dating this guy and basically I couldn’t take his ass anymore. Not only was he faker than Plies rapper voice, he tried to use his “emotions” to get me to break. Now, anyone that knows Tahyisha *fuck V.I right now* knows that I’m that last person to get emotional around. I’m not saying that I’m a cold-hearted person, but I can see bull-shit from the other side of the street. All those crocodile tears don’t move this chick here. So I was at the point of no return with this dude. He knew that I was trying to end the relationship, but I guess he wasn’t ready for all that. I tried talking to him, but he felt the best thing to do was avoid my calls when I said I needed to talk to him. So, after trying to be the nice guy in this dead end situation I just stopped talking to him all together. No answering his calls, no replies to his texts, hell not answering the door when he dropped by. I pretended that his lame ass never existed. He got the point a month later.
Holding on to a dead end relationship makes no sense. Why would you want to be with someone that clearly doesn’t want to be with you? I know it gets lonely, but damn why would you settle for the short end of the stick? Let it go…. Think of it this way….by ending the relationship you’re leaving room for the right person to come into your life. Why stifle your growth? And quit that shit about begging the other person to reconsider. Do you really think your relationship is gonna get better after they done dumped your ass? NO!!!! If they do get back into the relationship *chances are they won’t* the respect isn’t gonna be there… PITY WILL. It’s like you’re the charity case begging to belong to someone else. You don’t need that in your life. Moving on is hard, but dammit it has to be done. Time heals all wounds, and even though it takes time you’ll be better off in the long run. I give tough love….tek it.
Holla at me: Do you know when to let go?
